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cclyda

cclyda Out of my mind. Back in five minutes
updated 23 days ago

63, Female - Eons member since July 28, 2007

Located in Sacramento, CA

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now using the skin Beautiful Stairs by cclyda - 1 day ago

added a reply to the message Reminds me of Randy in the group Widows and Widowers - 3 days ago

played a Brain Game - 4 days ago

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Relationship

Single. Interested in meeting people for friendship and meeting people for networking

Hometown

SACRAMENTO, CALIFORNIA

Places I've been

Sacramento, Ca Washington ,DC, Hinesville, Ga,Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, Salinas, CA, Ft. Sam Houston, TX, Seattle, WA.

Education

SIERRA COLLEGE, IN ROCKLIN, CA. , NURSING - 1988 to 1991

Work

Maxim, LVN - 2009 to 2009

More about me

MY NAME IS CC LYDA, I HAVE BEEN MARRIED 4 TIMES, DIVORCED 3 TIMES AND MARRIED RANDY, IN OCTOBER, 1991, AFTER GOING TOGETHER FOR ALMOST 3 YEARS, HE WAS 17 YEARS YOUNGER THAN ME AND WE GOT ALONG GREAT AND I THOUGHT IT WOULD BE FOREVER, BUT UNFORTUNATELY GOD HAD OTHER PLANS. RANDY DIED ON MEMORIAL DAY OF 2007, NEVER THOUGHT HE WOULD GO FIRST BUT I GUESS HIS HEART JUST WASN'T STRONG ENOUGH AND HE HAD A MASSIVE HEART ATTACK IN FRONT OF ME AND WAS GONE IN LESS THAN 5 MINUTES, I AM STILL IN SHOCK AND KIND OF LIKE SHELL SHOCK, TOTALLY NUMB. I WORK FOR THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA AT FOLSOM PRISON AS AN LVN IN THE OPTO DEPT. AS AN ASSISSTANT TO THE OPTOMITRIST, I LOVE MY JOB, HAVE HAD MANY JOBS IN THE PAST 40 YEARS BUT THIS IS THE BEST. I HAVE 3 GROWN CHILDREN AND 4 GRANDCHILDREN: 10, 12, 15 AND 20. IT'S SO HARD TO BELIEVE THAT MY BABY IS GONE, I WILL REMEMBER HIM FOREVER. I HAVE MY BOOBOO, WHO IS PART AUSTRALIAN SHEPHERD AND PART CHOW, SHE IS 5 YEARS OLD, AND RANDY AND I BOTH PICKED HER OUT THE YEAR WE BOUGHT OUR BEAUTIFUL HOUSE IN 2002. MY 15 YEAR OLD GRANDDAUGHTER, SAMANTHA, IS MY GIRL, SHE LIVES WITH ME MOST OF THE TIME, I GUESS THAT'S WHAT GRANDMA'S ARE FOR, SHE SAYS THAT GRANDPA SPOILED HER AND NOW IT'S UP TO ME TO TAKE OVER FOR HIM, HAHA, WRONG. BUT OH, WELL. I DO HAVE TO CONFESS THAT I HAVE A BIG MOUTH, IF THERE IS ANYTHING ABOUT ME THAT YOU WANT TO KNOW I WILL PROBABLY TELL YOU ABOUT IT IN THE FIRST 5 MINUTES AFTER WE MEET. I WILL TALK TIL I AM HOARSE IF I LIKE YOU, AND I AM LOOKING FOR AS MANY FRIENDS AS I CAN GET, I LOVE TO HAVE A LOT OF FRIENDS. On August 26, 2009 the prison found out about Mike mainly because they tore my car apart and my purse and found pictures of him in my wallet, when they asked me I was truthful, I said we were in love and wanted to get married, so it was goodbye job or goodbye Mike, I picked the former, now I am working for a couple of regestries when they call me, they pay better but no benefits have been putting in a lot of resumes to everywhere but nothing yet, hope it happens by the first of the year, with my diabetes I need the benefits. As I always say, SHIT HAPPENS, huh?? WELL, HERE IT IS DECEMBER, 2009 AND MIKE AND I BROKE UP, I JUST CAN'T WAIT FOR ANOTHER 7 YEARS FOR HIM TO GET OUT, I HAVE BEEN IN SUCH A DOWNWARD SPITAL FOR SO LONG AND NOW THAT I TOLD HIM I THINK IF I JUST THINK WHAT I NEED IN LIFE MAYBE I WILL BE ABLE TO LIVE AGAIN, BUT HOW THE HELL DO I START MY LIFE ALL OVER AGAIN AT 63? NOT SURE, WISH I HAD SOMEONE TO TELL ME WHAT TO DO, BUT THEN I WOULD PROBABLY NOT LISTEN, I NEVER HAVE AND AT MY AGE I PROBABLY NEVER WILL.

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