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Relationship

Single. Interested in meeting men for dating and meeting people for friendship and meeting people for networking

Hometown

SACRAMENTO, CALIFORNIA

Places I've been

Sacramento, Ca Washington ,DC, Hinesville, Ga,Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, Salinas, CA, Ft. Sam Houston, TX, Seattle, WA. Okinawa, Japan Boynton Beach, Fla

Education

• SIERRA COLLEGE, IN ROCKLIN, CA. , NURSING - 1988 to 1991
• Sierra College, nursing - 1988 to 1991

Work

• Maxim, LVN - 2009 to 2009
• Folsom State Prison, lead LVN - 2007 to 2009
• Sacramento County Jail, LVN - 1996 to 1998
• Hilltop Convo. Auburn, Ca., LVN STATION 2 - 1988 to 2004

More about me

MY NAME IS CC LYDA, I HAVE BEEN MARRIED 4 TIMES, DIVORCED 3 TIMES AND MARRIED RANDY, IN OCTOBER, 1991, AFTER GOING TOGETHER FOR ALMOST 3 YEARS, HE WAS 17 YEARS YOUNGER THAN ME AND WE GOT ALONG GREAT AND I THOUGHT IT WOULD BE FOREVER, BUT UNFORTUNATELY GOD HAD OTHER PLANS.  RANDY DIED ON MEMORIAL DAY OF 2007, NEVER THOUGHT HE WOULD GO FIRST BUT I GUESS HIS HEART JUST WASN'T STRONG ENOUGH AND HE HAD A MASSIVE HEART ATTACK IN FRONT OF ME AND WAS GONE IN LESS THAN 5 MINUTES, I AM STILL IN SHOCK AND KIND OF LIKE SHELL SHOCK, TOTALLY NUMB.  I WORK FOR THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA AT FOLSOM PRISON AS AN LVN IN THE OPTO DEPT. AS AN ASSISSTANT TO THE OPTOMITRIST, I LOVE MY JOB, HAVE HAD MANY JOBS IN THE PAST 40 YEARS BUT THIS IS THE BEST.  I HAVE 3 GROWN CHILDREN AND 5 GRANDCHILDREN: my new one Josh will be 1 next month,  Taylor is 15, Felicia is 16 and Samantha is 19 and Stephen is 2.  IT'S SO HARD TO BELIEVE THAT MY BABY IS GONE, I WILL REMEMBER HIM FOREVER.  I HAVE MY BOOBOO, WHO IS PART AUSTRALIAN SHEPHERD AND PART CHOW, SHE IS 9 YEARS OLD, AND RANDY AND I BOTH PICKED HER OUT THE YEAR WE BOUGHT OUR BEAUTIFUL HOUSE IN 2002.   MY 19 YEAR OLD GRANDDAUGHTER, SAMANTHA, IS MY GIRL, SHE LIVES WITH ME MOST OF THE TIME, I GUESS THAT'S WHAT GRANDMA'S ARE FOR, SHE SAYS THAT GRANDPA SPOILED HER AND NOW IT'S UP TO ME TO TAKE OVER FOR HIM, HAHA, WRONG.  BUT OH, WELL.    I DO HAVE TO CONFESS THAT I HAVE A BIG MOUTH, IF THERE IS ANYTHING ABOUT ME THAT YOU WANT TO KNOW I WILL PROBABLY TELL YOU ABOUT IT IN THE FIRST 5 MINUTES AFTER WE MEET.  I WILL TALK TIL I AM HOARSE IF I LIKE YOU, AND I AM LOOKING FOR AS MANY FRIENDS AS I CAN GET, I LOVE TO HAVE A LOT OF FRIENDS.             On August 26, 2009 the prison found out about Mike mainly because they tore my car apart and my purse and found pictures of him in my wallet, when they asked me I was truthful, I said we were in love and wanted to get married, so it was goodbye job or goodbye Mike, I picked the former, now I am working for a couple of regestries when they call me, they pay better but no benefits have been putting in a lot of resumes to everywhere but nothing yet, hope it happens by the first of the year, with my diabetes I need the benefits.   As I always say, SHIT HAPPENS, huh??   WELL, HERE IT IS DECEMBER, 2009 AND MIKE AND I BROKE UP,  I JUST CAN'T WAIT FOR ANOTHER 7 YEARS FOR HIM TO GET OUT, I HAVE BEEN IN SUCH A DOWNWARD SPITAL FOR SO LONG AND NOW THAT I TOLD HIM I THINK IF I JUST THINK WHAT I NEED IN LIFE MAYBE I WILL BE ABLE TO LIVE AGAIN, BUT HOW THE HELL DO I START MY LIFE ALL OVER AGAIN AT 63?  NOT SURE,  WISH I HAD SOMEONE TO TELL ME WHAT TO DO, BUT THEN I WOULD PROBABLY NOT LISTEN, I NEVER HAVE AND AT MY AGE I PROBABLY NEVER WILL.                 ANOTHER CHRISTMAS COMING AND STILL WITHOUT RANDY, I KEEP THINKING THAT ONE DAY I WILL NOT REMEMBER HIM EVERY SINGLE DAY AND MISS HIM MORE AND MORE, BUT I DO, SO I GUESS HE REALLY IS MY SOULMATE ONCE AND FOR ALL, NOT THAT I'M COMPLAINING, IT'S JUST KIND OF LONESOME BY MYSELF.  ON JAN.1, 2011, HE WOULD HAVE BEEN 47, STILL SO YOUNG. 
                       NOW IT'S MAY 2011, COMING UP ON 4 YEARS WITHOUT RANDY, SAMANTHA MOVED TO LA AND STEPHEN AND JIMMY LIVE WITH ME.  I AM BASICALLY RETIRED FROM NURSING, WHEN I TURN 65 IN DECEMBER WILL HAVE TO MAKE SOME LONG TERM PLANS, BUT I HAVE HAD IT, THE FRONT OFFICE OF EVERY HOSPITAL RUINS IT FOR THE PATIENTS AND THE NURSES TOO, I NEVER FOUND ONE THAT I COULD GET ALONG WITH FOR VERY LONG, AT LEAST CAROLYN SAID I WAS ALWAYS A GOOD NURSE BECAUSE I PUT THE PATIENTS FIRST AND THEY LOVED ME, BUT THE DON'S AND ADMINISTRATORS WERE ALWAYS JUST LOOKING TO SAVE MONEY, NO MATTER WHO SUFFERED.

Activities

Reading, watching TV, listening to books on tape, playing with my dog, booboo, traveling when i have the money and gambling.

Favorite Charities

Goodwill's and St. Vincent de Paul's.

Favorite Music

I LOVE COUNTRY/WESTERN, but i think my favorite all time is Elvis Presley and the Beatles. I even have an Elvis bedroom with Elvis Presley Boulevard on the door, and his album covers as a border around the ceiling. Since Elvis died music has died. Pictures, Images and Photos">

Favorite TV Shows

CSI, Cold Case, One life to live and Jeopardy

Favorite Movies

Imagine, John Lennon, and Musicals.

Favorite Books

anything by Danielle Steele, Stephen King or Bertrice Small.

Favorite Quotes

WHEN I DIE BURY ME FACE DOWN, SO THE WHOLE WORLD CAN KISS MY ASS. ALSO, THIS TOO SHALL PASS, WE ONLY GO AROUND THIS LIFE ONCE AND IF WE DO IT RIGHT, WE WON'T HAVE THE ENERGY TO DO IT AGAIN. WHATEVER!!

Favorite People

My sweet deceased husband, Randy, may he rest in peace and be there waiting for me when I go home.

Favorite Places

MY FAVORITE PLACE IN THE WORLD HAS GOT TO BE HAWAII. WE WENT THERE ONCE AND ONCE IS NOT ENOUGH, MONTEREY, CALIF. MOST BEAUTIFUL COAST LINE I HAVE EVER SEEN, AND IF YOU LIKE CROWDED CITIES NOTHING BEATS SAN FRANCISCO, CA.

Favorite Animals

My dog, Booboo.

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