AuntieEmma's profile

About 20 years ago my younger cousins boyfriend discribed me as 'that hot older lady.' Now the hot part only comes in flashes, but the older part still applies. I think of myself as pretty average. I try to laugh a lot, it makes me feel better than being mad. But I have a vile temper when it is activated, and tend to go one sentence to far in an argument. I have found the best and worst thing about me is that I am probably going to be the one to cut through all the BS and point out the elephant in the room. It's the best because someone needs to do it, and the worst because it makes some people not like me much. I have a small circle of to-the-death friends and I really don't want to expand it. Few people fit that catagory anyway. I find that a lot of people view friendship as an attitude of 'what can this person do for me today.' I think I allow myself to be used to often, and usually end up on someones bad list when I finally say no more. I wouldn't mind watching a convicted person being put to death. I figure if I am for it, I should at least be able to watch it. I trust animals more than people. I am not much of a hugger, except with my kids. I am always on alert around people who come across as very friendly when you first meet them. I think that's called 'reserved'. I think I have a creative mind, but some of my creations are actual flops. It usually takes me awhile to admit that though. I will lie if I think the clothes you are wearing make your butt look big.