Places I have lived:

• Memphis, TN

• Vallejo, CA

• Gaithersburg, MD

• New Carrollton, MD

• Fremont, CA

• Studio City, CA

• North Hollywood, CA

• Metro ATL, GA

• Phoenix, AZ

Being in the record business all of my adult life and married to recording artist for over 20 years, I have traveled all over the US, including Hawaii (Oahu & Kauai). Also, London, Amsterdam, and Cologne, Germany.

My favorite places are:

• San Francisco, CA

• Monterey/Carmel, CA (particularly Big Sur!)

• Napa, CA

• Phoenix, AZ

• Bath & Bray, England

I am planning to move to Phoenix, AZ later this year. As for traveling, I'd like to go to Tuscany, Australia, Brazil, Tortuga, and the Galapagos Islands to see all of those nasty little gila monsters which cover cliffs like they are part of the terrain!

I am an "introverted extrovert" who loves travel, books, football, and my two fantastic chidren. After 30 years in the record industry, I now enjoy quiet time with close friends. Nights are spent in bed with "Cooper", my Japanese Chin, watching old movies on TCM. I don't go out much these days because I've been there, seen that - about a million times!

I have spent over 30 years in the record business, specializing in music business administration and entertainment marketing. I am also a publishing songwriter. For over 20 years I was married to a member of a major recording group.

Somehow I was chosen to be one of People magazine's "50 Most Beautiful People Over 50" for its annual "Most People People In The World" issue (May 7, 2007). I can't tell you how excited I am. I have never missed a single issue of the magazine since 1977.

I'm here to meet new friends with like interests. Sisters always welcomed! I am heterosexual and I love men, although I am not looking for a serious relationship right now. (I was married for over 20 years so I'm taking a little break right now.) However, I'd love to hear from EVERYONE! But, please, NO MEN WITH EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE! I don't want to hear about all of the women who broke your heart before. I've got my own "war stories" but I STILL LOVE MEN!

And, Guys, please finish your Profile before you email me. I don't respond to "ghosts". I've shown you "mine" so show me "yours".

One of my "LifeDreams" is to retire in Italy, sitting on my terrazzo in Tuscany, drinking in the fresh air and taking advantage of the country's rich history.

I'm a big Jerry Rice fan. I have lots of his sports memorabilia, including authentic autographed jerseys - San Francisco 49ers & Oakland Raiders - and a personally signed limited edition lithograph. Now if I could just have the real thing......talk about the power of "LifeDreams"!

To learn more about the REAL DEAL, check out my website, THE LOOSE BOOK (www.theloosebook.com). It is truly a labor of love. I managed to pull it together, thanks to becoming comfortable here on Eons with communicating with people over the internet. Before joining up, I wouldn't even do IMs, and I've been surfing since 1998!

"THE WIRE"

The most outstanding, well-written, and superbly acted series in the history of television. Each season is more rivoting than the last. If you prefer fantasy, check out "The Sopranos".

"THE WIRE" • It's not HBO • It's real life....already in an American city near you

"Top Chef"

"The Graham Norton Show"

"First 48"

"Solved"

"The Shift"

"Watching The Detectives"

Classical, smooth jazz, rap, hip-hop

Anything by the great Oscar Wilde
"A woman who will tell you her age will tell you anything."
"Fashion is what one wears oneself. What is unfashionable is what other people wear."
"Other people are quite dreadful. The only possible society is oneself. To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance."

OR the great Doc Holliday in "Tombstone"
"You're no daisy at all. Poor soul

, you were just too high strung."
"I'll be your huckleberry".
"Why Johnny Ringo, you look like someone just walked over your grave."
"Why Kate, You're not wearing a bustle. How lewd."
" It's true, you are a good woman. Then again, you may be the antichrist."

My parents

, Earl and Ella Bolden, age 89 and 82, who were blessed to live to see an African-American President!

DOGS!!!

Especially my 6 lb. bad-ass Japanese Chin male, "Cooper", and "Mase", our 11 y/o Brussels Griffon/Jap Chin female.