I could use some prayer for myself and my mother....My dad passed away in April of this year....(see profile for blog)...I have not been able to deal with my loss...for trying to keep my mom focused.....They were married for 60 years....before my dad there was her dad....she has never lived on her own....and is now faced with that fact....she does not know how to operate the remote....put gas in her car....because she has never had to...and let it go at that....she acts pretty good around other people....even my two brothers...but when she talks to me.....she tells me that she wants to die.....she hardly eats....drinks....or takes her medicine....I have told her that God is whom she should be relying on....and should have all along....and then she jumps to the defensive .....I tell her it is not pleasing to God....for her to just sit there and waste away....but she comes back with...Well I told Him...all along that I wanted to go first.....I have talked to her prayed for her until I am beginning to think ....that I can't help her if she doesn't care to help herself....i feel like I have not only lost my dad but my mom as well......Your prayers would be wonderful.....and any suggestions would be appreciated.....God Bless you