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Just Wondering.........

How do you handle bad news.......
for instance....someone has a terminal illness and you are very close to that person
Your husband just dropped a bomb on you like.......I'm having an affair..
Do you seek out a close friend to talk to or do you keeps things inside,.. bottled up...
What is your outlet?

my answer in 1st reply..
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Me....I have to tell someone, and hope that they can help me get through it......For me, it's always good to have a friend to confide in..One that I KNOW I can trust...I wouldn't tell just anyone, that comes by, but a close friend.

Of course I would always go to my heavenly Father in these situations too.
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about 1 month ago
Ruth~I don't see your answer here. Cyber shot at you I guess.

I go deadly silent. No noise, no speech, nothing until I process the problem or the situation. I don't talk, period, until I have everything worked out in my head, and sometimes to see the answers on paper. I don't mean any harm be it, I'm not trying to punish anyone. It's just that I have to be okay with everything myself before I can communicate with anyone else. Then I carry on.
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about 1 month ago
First i would ask him what is going on ,talk to people you trust then go from there
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about 1 month ago
I pick two cucumber to day going to have tomatoes up my !!!!!! you know what?I got my permits for the sheds then i told them i need an inspection on the sheds
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about 1 month ago
Sounds like you don't have a problem thrashing things out Bee. Wish we had the tomatoes you have there. Glad you got your permits. Why the inspection?
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about 1 month ago
Need inspection so they can say ok you all done with us
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about 1 month ago
I'm quite at first till I calm down,and no one will mess with me while i'm waiting to calm down.
Then it gets badwhen i do talk.lolol
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about 1 month ago
I turn inward. I'm the depression prone type. I think inside my head a lot. I write things down on paper and my elegant penmanship turns insanely manic. Then I calm down and return to the elegant penmanship. Weird, huh? But I actually do that. It works for me.

I don't really have anyone whom I could talk to. Well, maybe I do. But I don't trust anyone with my deepest, darkest hurts and pains. Sad I know. But that's my life.
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about 1 month ago