Yes I totally believe that if you cheat once you will do again & again. Once you get away with it, it makes it exciting to see if you will get caught for one thing.
And some people can not be faithful to one person no matter how much they love that person, it is just the excitment of cheating & variety.
I asked a guy once that I WASN'T involved with why guys cheat ON SOMEONE THEY LOVE and was astounished as his answer; "To see if they can get away with it"! Now mind you, I included "someone that you love" on purpose - - the "game" is worth loosing someone that you LOVE? That just blows my mind!
i would totally disagree with that statement.
It's kind of like saying "once a thief, always a thief."
I believe that people can and do change, if they want to.
Well I think it is right u there with How many times do you have to lie before you are a liar. how many times do you have to cheat before you are a cheater. . Then once you are then you are always that liar or cheater. Can you Change maybe. but you are still a cheater or liar. Naiche
can people change? Yes. but in reality, they seldom do.