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COMMITTMENT

Why do you think men (or women) are so afraid of committment?
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I know why I am
I am afraid of failing or losing again.
This has been my track record all my life with relationships, so I have a very hard time, saying I Do, plus getting into a serious relationship

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3 months ago
NOt me. I have had nothing but bad relationships. But you know they say Fools Rush In Where Brave Men Fear to Tread. I am the biggest fool of all. I keep on rushing in I figure sooner or later I have to get it right. Naiche Fear is why peopple fail to commit in my humble opinion Naiche
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3 months ago
Fear of failure, fear of rejection, fear of pain
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3 months ago
The don't commit because they are afraid they are making a big mistake. They not only mistrust the person they are involved wiith, they don't trust themselves. They want to have an escape plan.
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3 months ago
Also, can you blame people for being commitment phobic? Just look around and the devastation! A guy once told me that, in his opinion, commitment was just permission to be mean to your partner.
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3 months ago
mostly afraid of being lied to and/or cheated on again. trust issues.
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3 months ago
men because they are distrustful,and should it get that far the legal system seems to favor women in divorce procedures.
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3 months ago
fear of commitment

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3 months ago
Maybe because they have seen unhappy marriages.
All my cousins admire my dad's brother who's 60 years of marriage was an extended honeymoon.
Gave us hope.

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3 months ago