Loss My Husband
Hi, I lost my husband on June 25. I am looking to talk with others about what it feels like. My world is in a spin and I feel like hiding under the bed.
Help!
Help!
Hello Linda, I'm so sorry for your loss, but I'm happy you found your way to our group. You can talk about any feelings that you might be having at any time. There are a lot of wonderful caring people here who will be here to support you. We understand you, when others don't. Read some of the other postings and replies. They can really help a lot. You will be going through so many different emotions, and here you can see how others have handled them. I hope you have family and friends close by. In the meantime, welcome to our family which you are now a part of. I wish you a very peaceful day, and the strength to continue on. Hugs to you, Elaine
3 months ago
Hello Linda and welcome to the group that no one wants to be a member of
I am sorry for your loss
you are very early in the grieving process...and yes, the world is spinning
your world is unreal, nothing makes sense and the pain is numbing
many often find that sharing their pain offers relief...unlike others, we do understand, we are faced with the same situations, problems as you are
please read past messages, share your thoughts or reply to the messages of others, if you feel able...we all want to help each other on the healing path
bearhugs
steve
go ahead, hide under the bed
I am sorry for your loss
you are very early in the grieving process...and yes, the world is spinning
your world is unreal, nothing makes sense and the pain is numbing
many often find that sharing their pain offers relief...unlike others, we do understand, we are faced with the same situations, problems as you are
please read past messages, share your thoughts or reply to the messages of others, if you feel able...we all want to help each other on the healing path
bearhugs
steve
go ahead, hide under the bed
3 months ago
Linda, you are just starting a journey that will be the rest of your life. All of us here understand as we are walking in your shoes. My husband passed away 13 months ago and every day I miss him. Your emotions will be one of wonder, the question WHY is always there. One thing I found helpful for me is the group called griefshare check your community to see if there is a group like this there. Keep us posted and remember that we all care for you. Be good to yourself as someday we will again see our Love one and get all of our answers but for now we all take one step at a time. Vicki
3 months ago
Sorry for your lost I lost my husband on April6, 2008 and I am still hurting so bad I cry all the time it is just so lonely here now that he is gone. I lost him to cancer and I just miss him so much, I don't know if it get any better or not I know that I still feel the same. All I do is think of him all the time day and night. At one point I just wanted to give up and go on with him that is just how bad I was hurting it's hard but by the grace of God we will make it. Take care and one day I hope and pray that we all will be with our love one again.
3 months ago
(((Linda))) so sorry for your loss. You have come to the right place...everyone here knows what you are going through. Come back often...and talk to us about anything and everything. You have just began this journey...and you will have alot of emotions and feelings. Talking about them does help.
Blessings, Peachy56
Blessings, Peachy56
3 months ago
Oh Linda,
Wishing i had some wise words tot ell you.I have been on this path of life..for 20 months now and still I cry daily and fear takes over my soul and the lonliness is really BIG. What I can share is we all understand.. talk all you want about your beloved..rant and rave and know somebody will always be here to listen..and to understand... Advice I'd give you is only do the next thing that must be done,,rest as you can,eat as you can and remember to breathe..one foot in front of the other, one moment at a time... Thinking of you.... joanieang
Wishing i had some wise words tot ell you.I have been on this path of life..for 20 months now and still I cry daily and fear takes over my soul and the lonliness is really BIG. What I can share is we all understand.. talk all you want about your beloved..rant and rave and know somebody will always be here to listen..and to understand... Advice I'd give you is only do the next thing that must be done,,rest as you can,eat as you can and remember to breathe..one foot in front of the other, one moment at a time... Thinking of you.... joanieang
3 months ago
Linda, I'm so glad you found us. Your grief is so new and we've all been there.
My husband died on April 5. I don't know how long I was in shock. My brain went into overdrive and convinced me that if I took care of everything and got everything done, he would come back. I worked like a fool to clean & sort & donate. I think that kept me from feeling, for the most part.
It is good that you are allowing yourself to hurt and to be scared. It is good that you are here sharing your pain. Keep checking in with us. Big hugs..........marty
My husband died on April 5. I don't know how long I was in shock. My brain went into overdrive and convinced me that if I took care of everything and got everything done, he would come back. I worked like a fool to clean & sort & donate. I think that kept me from feeling, for the most part.
It is good that you are allowing yourself to hurt and to be scared. It is good that you are here sharing your pain. Keep checking in with us. Big hugs..........marty
3 months ago
Dear Linda,
I am so very sorry for the loss of your husband. You are in the very early stages of grief, where your mind puts you in a fog and yes your world in spinning out of control right now. I hope you have some good friends and family to help you through these next couple of months. I am 9 months out and yes you will survive, but right now let yourself grieve and cry when you need to. Sometimes in the very beginning you don't feel like getting out of bed, well stay in bed right now and get some probably well needed sleep. As the months progress you learn how to live with the loss of your husband, but you will never grow out of love or forget him.
Please come back here and post often and if you would like to talk to me about anything please PM me.
Hugs of friendship,
Kathy
I am so very sorry for the loss of your husband. You are in the very early stages of grief, where your mind puts you in a fog and yes your world in spinning out of control right now. I hope you have some good friends and family to help you through these next couple of months. I am 9 months out and yes you will survive, but right now let yourself grieve and cry when you need to. Sometimes in the very beginning you don't feel like getting out of bed, well stay in bed right now and get some probably well needed sleep. As the months progress you learn how to live with the loss of your husband, but you will never grow out of love or forget him.
Please come back here and post often and if you would like to talk to me about anything please PM me.
Hugs of friendship,
Kathy
3 months ago
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You have found a great place to find understanding supportive people. My hubby died in March 23 t his year and this is the one place I have found most helpful.
From time to time I still hide under the bed too. Living without Dave is the hardest thing I have ever had to do. At time I feel like giving up, I am sad, angry and down right pissed off. My days of joys are few. I have noticed that I have good days a little more often. So I keep putting one foot forward in hopes that one day I will feel normal again. This forum on Eon's is a big part of why I am doing better.
Welcome Linda, I hope you find comfort here also.
From time to time I still hide under the bed too. Living without Dave is the hardest thing I have ever had to do. At time I feel like giving up, I am sad, angry and down right pissed off. My days of joys are few. I have noticed that I have good days a little more often. So I keep putting one foot forward in hopes that one day I will feel normal again. This forum on Eon's is a big part of why I am doing better.
Welcome Linda, I hope you find comfort here also.
3 months ago
You have certainly come to the right place. I am 10 1/2 months past losing my soul mate. Please post and ask any questions at any time. This is an awesome group of special people that can help you on your way. I am not someone that writes a lot, but just by reading, and feeling everyone is such a comfort. Keep reading and remember you are not alone...
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