i answered this, already, but first i would get examined by my physician, then call a lawyer, after asking him to leave. so many years of deceptions no trust, and no the lover would not be coming to my house for anything. my concern would be to tell the younger children with him present. the older children can make up their own minds.
What an arrogant, self- indulgent thing for this "husband" soon to be I hope "wasband" could do. And what about the wife? She had to know he was gay. There are clues.
I just don't get people. Why bring children in this mix? This guy was AM/FM and wanted what he wanted, while he "decided" come out. I don't believe people are bi-sexual, that's just an excuse to get off and use people for the sensation of sex. Cuz, baby the sun don't half shine!!!!
And what is this "husband" talking about? He didn't enjoy sex with her? Then why did he keep on doing it? He made 4 kids, so we know his gun didn't have any problem shooting bullets.
The wife probably saw the signs, but probably thought she could "change" him. She needed a reality check a long time ago.
What would I do? Well, this wouldn't happen to me...
posted by teira
2 months ago
I'd kick his ass up and down main street! Then I'd tell him what I told my first husband....PACK YOUR S**T and get OUT! The nerve of him!
T,,,,I just read your reply.....love it!!!! And let me clarify...my first husband wasn't gay, he just wouldn't do right.
As Badu says Ya better call Tyrone...and ya can't use my phone, callllllllllll him! You must be kidding.
I would shoot off or bite off or cut off his private part....:)) Amen.....
What a self centered, ego maniac!! Its fine that he changed his plans, but other people lives are effected by every decision we make. I bet she is feeling really bad about herself. AND ITS NOT HER FAULT!!
I would seperate, get some distance, go to therapy, and then discuss it.
He can do his own dirty laundry.
I would be so done with him.. He could have whatever kind of communication he wanted with the kids.
He would be out the door, but not before I took the old rusty, dull saw to his equipment. Would have to get tested to make sure didn't give me anything. A talk with a lawyer and see what I could do.
