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Indifferent

http://www.terceraescuadrilla.com/almacen/personal/DSLam/swg/smiley-indifferent.jpg Indifferent: Adj.:not showing or feeling interest. The 'smiley" face to the left represents being indifferent.

Imagine this: You belong to a club of let say about 85 members.You get up in front of your club at a meeting to present something of interest to you, maybe a joke, a picture or perhaps even a heartfelt story. When you look up at the end you see 84 faces looking just like the 'indifferent" smiley face. How would you feel? Would you want to continue to belong to this club? To make this a bit more real, when you look up you see about 80 indifferent faces and four or five smiley faces. How would you feel?

This is what occurs everyday in nearly all of the groups in EONS.

We have at most 10% of the members who care enough or who are considerate enough to respond to the posts presented by their fellow members. We have another 20% of the group who visit and apparently are indifferent because they never respond and then we have the remaining 70% that are so indifferent that never visit at all.

I know that most of the 20% of the indifferent visitors must really be interested because they keep coming back. It would be nice if they would remove that indifferent mask, show some teeth, show a frown or show some consideration for their fellow members. An occasional "LOL" or "Very interesting" or "Thanks for sharing this" would be nice. Even a courteous reply opposing the content of the post would at least showed that they were interested. In my family we can tell a love one that the purple vest-cowboy hat combination is in poor taste and still love them and it does not result in a fight. This world would be boring if everyone agrees with each one of us!

So here I am, standing in front of the club and presenting my case. What kind of smiley faces am I seeing?

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Good Post gJ. Come on Chums post post and post :) If you need help with anything feel free to PM me and gJ is very helpfull too and he doesn't bite...well...ummm right gJ? LOL

GroupHug

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3 months ago
I still have all my teeth but I seldom bite.
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3 months ago
Gary; it seems to be like that with groups. At least with my group as well. I think people check in but not many respond. Why is that? I don't know. I'm guilty of not responding every day. I'm sorry for that. I always try to check in when I can and respond here and there. Very sporadic. You do a great job on this group and you put extra effort in to that. It's amazing. Hope all is well where you are.
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3 months ago
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Thanks for this post Gary! Excellent point! I've posted in groups and gotten little if any replies and thought why bother. You're such a good manager! I'm off to pick up my grandgirls and bring them home so I won't be on eons much. Hope you all find joy in your day!

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3 months ago
Great post GJ. I sometimes don't get responses at some of my other groups which is very disappointing. Take Care!!

Floating Smiles

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3 months ago
Gary that is indeed a good post. I pop in here every day sometimes 2 or 3 times a day. Some times I post and sometimes I don't. For me it depends on me and what is posted. If I'm not feeling very good, I lurk, or if the posts are such that don't really invite or interests me, I don't post. The page is usually full and I don't have time to read them all. So I am guilty as stated! Sorry sir, I'll try to do better. And I always have a smiley face for this room.

smiley

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3 months ago
on computer smileyGood post Gary. I agree that this seems to be true for most of the groups on Eons but I'm sure that's because our online community activities are second to our real life adventures.

Cloudyblue said it very nicely ... I visit and lurk to see what's going on but may not always post depending on how I'm feeling at the time. I can't be online as much as I used to and with the time zone differences, I always seem to miss out on discussions. But I do my best to stay in touch with my groups even if I can't do it every day.

You get a happy face from me because I agree with the others... you're doing a fantastic job in managing your groups and the posts are interesting enough to make me want to come back. So don't worry that only a small percent of the membership post or respond regularly, gJ, because you've got US!
wink smiley

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3 months ago
I agree..I do like to respond..somstimes someone beats me to it woit the same thought...I guess I shouls say Me,too.. I apologize for the apparent lack of response..not intentional.
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3 months ago
Good to hear from you all!
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3 months ago
dropping by to say hi and leaving you with a smile---
smiley face

I do more reading than writing but I am trying harder to post more comments.

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3 months ago
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