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Sleeping

I believe that sleeping with your spouse can be very intimate. I always loved sleeping with my husbands.

I used to sleep with his arm around me and my head on his chest.

I sleep in a king sz bed on the total opposite of him. Sometimes he tries to put his feet to touch mine. ANother way we used to sleep together. I used to let him even though it bothered me because I felt as a wife it was the right thing to do. But he would wake up crappy and leave without talking to me. Now I tell him to move his feet.

The other day his sleep apnea kicked in. I put my whole body over him ready to do CPR. He was angry... angry..angry!
can you imagine? No sorry no nothing.

posted by chrty

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come on I want to read your replies!!!

posted by chrty
3 months ago

i believe it should be initmate but in mine it is just to sleep. no touching or anything else except maybe watching tv. i think touching in bed is so nice and sexual that all couples should make a habit of doing it and wanting to do it. yes i can imagine nothing i dont have to imagine that is what i have

posted by jimmy12
3 months ago

I think sleeping together should be wonderful...arms around each other...

I sleep in a separate bed in a separate room...that just about says it...

posted by Musiclover
3 months ago

Jimmy I understand the nothing. It is deafening.
Music lover. I have bben thinking about sleeping in a seperate room but, I worry how my 10yr old will see it?

posted by chrty
3 months ago

Stop thinking about others, my friend, time to think of you...

posted by Musiclover
3 months ago

Thank you music .I think this writing is very theraputic. I feel a little better talking about this.

posted by chrty
3 months ago

MusicLover and I have something in common. Neither of us share a bed or even a room with our spouses. that does say something don't it? Oh well at least we share the house.

posted by Charles1950
3 months ago

Charles1950 and MusicLover well I'm with you guys! The only reason I go into my wifes room is to get a change of clothes. I have been out on the couch for 15 years now. The kids maybe be thinking or wondering why we don't sleep in the same room, but they have not asked me about it so I don't push it either.

posted by FlaPhil
3 months ago

You guys are all comepletely correct. I have not shared a bed with my wife in 15 years and for the last 7 years we have been in seperate rooms as well. I miss the touching and cuddling because i am a touchy sort of guy. My wife on the othere hand has absolutley no desire for touching or sensual activity of any sort. I wish that things could change, but I went into my marriage with the vows of tild death do us part and that is the way I intend to keep it. If she is that uncomfortable in it and she wnats out, it is up to her. I would be perfectly happy just having a lady friend that likes being with me and doesnt mind holding hands or maybe even some hugging and snuggling for the sake of feeling needed and wanted.