Message 9 of 18

Never give up hope...

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Miracles do happen all the time...
Just when I thought my miracle child was the only one this year, here is a story that I really could compare notes to.
'Dead' man recovering after ATV accident
Doctors said he was dead, and a transplant team was ready to take his organs -- until a young man came back to life'.
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You can read all about it at the above link. I know just what these parents felt and went through. Even though my son was 28, even though he wasn't brain dead, he did go through so many other things that were similar. I refer to one of my chapters as, 'Dead man walking' because that is what happened. My son had three near death calls, yet something happened that changed it all. Miracles. They happen everyday, but we just don't stop to think about them. This story I have added today is just another miracle that I know if you hold onto faith, everything changes. They can wake up and open their eyes, and they do..........

thegardengal's profile
Dianne, I still haven't finished the story...and I have been reading all day!!!!! LOL
It is a (your) heart-wrenching drama that NEEDS to be shared with the world!

Maybe that lady in that other group did you a favor by not letting you post it because of other people copying it and then possibly publishing it. You need to protect your story and yourself!

It is very very good and there are only very few corrections that I can see. Man, I would love to sit down with you and go over it all with you...something I can do on the internet too.

I pray for your total healing...which may never ever completely happen, as Tye will always need care. But in your heart you surely know that you did EVERYTHING you possibly could as a mother could for her child.

That hospital needs to be brought up short with a negligence suit and I presume you have proof of all the WRONG things that they did. Don't hesitate to do this, as it will make things much easier for anyone else who ever goes thru this type of problem in that area of the country. They NEED to clean up their entire act!
It screams MALPRACTICE!!! Covering their asses is not something that should be tolerated!!!

Regarding Tye, you have many many unsolved mysteries regarding his accident and who he was with. Have you gone to a psychic for answers? I know that those answers are out there, but you just need to be able to hear them.

At this point, that girl's family's prayer-of-hope died immediately, and they were able to start their healing right away. Yours will last a lifetime. Someday you will know the truth about what happened, but will it really matter? What has happened, has happened.

Dianne, you need to allow yourself to heal and learn how good it is to be alive and envelope the joy in your life now. As a mother, you are the best! I would have done exactly the same thing...and it looks like your child had a loser for a father in his life this time, but you KNOW that you are the overall winner!!!

I could not have written it any better...and my heart aches for you...but I am sending you joy everlasting to be with you forevermore. Know that each step of the way our Lord (is and) was with both of you and it was meant to be. Our lessons in life are not easy ones, so I have observed. Many faceted and quite unexpected is more like it.
Love, Mary
grayangelwing's profile

about 1 year ago
Thank you very much for your kind words today. My journal of thoughts are open for others to learn from. They are not in anyway meant to be something that is over rated. "I'm just the Mom" of a son that has had a bad accident, but has lived through it and is continuing to travel down his road of self healing. It is my hope that sharing some of what I experienced as a caregiver will help in opening other areas of concern to other care giving people and the injured.
thegardengal's profile

about 1 year ago