I would wait for a moment to talk with him and find out what is going on with him and why he is doing what he is doing. Then I would let him know that I saw him and that hot number he was with and the date when I saw him so he would know that I know what I'm talking about.
Now if his marriage was on the rocks and they had tried repeatedly to work things out and nothing seem to work, I would let it go. BUT, if they don't have problems in his marriage and they are a loving couple, then I would tell him he needs to end it right away and remind him of a good thing he got going.
I would walk right up to him and introduce myself. I would be interested in what he would do. If he doesn't introduce me I will introduce myself to his companion and try to make a comment that brings my sister into the conversation.
Next time I see my sister I will mention the meeting.
I would behave as if it were a perfectly innocent and appropriate thing to run into him with another woman. It could be a business connection you know. This puts the ball into his court so to speak.
You know Chuleta, as difficult as it may be, if I were the sister that was being cheated on I would want to know. If something like this happened in real life with someone I love it would break my heart. I would confront the kissing couple. Give the cheater a few days to speak to my sister and then go and talk to my sister about it.
I agree with all of you so far... As I was once the "cheatee", (I found out on my own), I'd have to act and not let it pass; if the hot date is know to the sister, then thats just wrong, but if she thinks he is single, he needs to do the right by both of them...
Ohhhhh after seeing my brother-in-law with another woman kissing passionately I make damn sure he see my pretty little face...jeje. I would bring my sister into the conversation for all we know he probably lie to the other woman posing as a single man. Weather he tells his wife or not I would tell my sis. If he is capable of cheating then he is capable of lying. I myself if I was in that position I would want to know that way I would take care of the matter. Now where is the "comal"...jaja. Don't mess with a mexican gal with a "comal" Qvo explain what a "comal" is to the ones that do not know...jajaja.
A comal is a griddle made of iron! We would use it too!
First I would confront him and his lady friend and then I would tell my sister. If it was just a friend, I would probably keep my mouth shut until the appropriate time. This happened to me once and I lost my friends friendship because she believed him over me. The second time it happened I kept my mouth shut until my friend started blaming herself for the problems in their marriage. Then I told her. We continue to be friends.
posted by qvo50
7 months ago
I would take qvo's stance and do exactly what she would do.
posted by ed67
7 months ago
I was in that situation. Caught the spouse of a cousin cozy and kissy in a restaurant while he told my cousin they were watching their money and it was best they eat home. My husband told me to not look in their direction so I didn't and then he came to our table, offered us a drink and said that we were "all adults" and it would be best not to say anything to my cousin. I was in the middle of thinking about what I would do when a friend spotted him in the movies with someone else and did tell. She and her children had a really horrible time for the next couple of years starting from scratch. It's hard to know what I feel about this. It broke up her home, her children really suffered and her self esteem hit the floor.
Oh Boy!!! First of all..as soon as I saw the heading I knew it was from Chuleta...(rofl)
Second..Fulana...I've heard that 'we're all adults' line before. It means 'we're up to no good but it's ok."
I would tell. But I would approach the person first and say...You're Soooo Busted!!! And then wait and see how much $$ he offers...rofl...nah, just kidding.
Actually, I don't know. It would depend on the people and how much I knew about them.
If the wife is my sister, I think I would tell.
But a friend/??? Maybe not....it really would depend.
I agree with Dama, if it were my sister I would tell her bec. I know she would tell me if the shoe was on the other foot.
