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I am divorced and we don't communicate, but it isn't because of anger, it is because we live hundreds of miles apart and both have our own lives. My son divorced and I told him he divorced her, I didn't. She will be here this week and will probably stay with us a few days. His ex and I are really good friends. I even babysit for her when she is in town and needs me. Her little girl calls me grandma and I am not her grandma and by the way, the ex doesn't want my son back. She just loved our family and to me that is a blessing. She said the one thing she hated most about the divorce was she didn't want to lose our family. His present wife split them up. I just let them know that they would have to accept my friendship with the ex because she had done nothing to hurt me. My daughter has a fit if I talk to her ex, but he is the father of my granddaughter and I am not about to cut him out of my life. I didn't like the way he treated her, but have since found out, first hand, what he was living with and I couldn't have handled it either.

There is always two sides, I just tried to remain neutral.
Sirrahnc