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Letters to a Dog - Source Unknown


January 6

Dear Dog,
I saw you today for the first time, just a couple houses from my own. The school bus stopped to let out your kids, and your mom opened the front door to let you run out and greet them. You are a wiggly, bouncy and happy little puppy with a full belly and a shiny coat. Your kids grabbed you up, hugged you, held you and toted you inside. Your tail was wagging the entire time. I thought to my self, how sweet, what a way to end a long hard day. I spoke to your mom this evening and she said that they got you from the Animal Shelter, and the kids named you Lucky.

March 10

Dear Lucky,
I saw you today as I always do on my way home from work. You were already outside to greet the kids today, which seemed a little odd The little girl got off the bus and shooed you away; she appeared to not want you jumping on her. The boy got off the bus and gave you a quick playful pat on the head, then smelled his hand and brushed you aside. You looked confused and sad, as you went to lie by the porch. You curled up in a tight ball on the cold ground and let out a huge sigh. My heart felt heavy that day.

March 21

Dear Lucky,
I saw you today. I was headed home, and the kids got off the bus, walked to the house, and you ran out as far as you could on your heavy chain to let them know you were there. The little girl ignored you, the little boy told you to be quiet, when you barked for his attention. My neighbor commented that they needed to do something with your barking because you keep them up at night. You had a bucket of water and a bowl of food, a relatively nice doghouse, but your eyes were sad and empty. I shook my head and let out a huge sigh.

April 30

Dear Lucky,
I worried for you today You look thin, your chain heavy on your neck, your coat is dirty and falling out, you don't get up to do much anymore. Your bucket is turned over, and I have not seen your food bowl for a few days now. I spoke to the neighbor and asked about you. He said you still bark at night and he saw the man of the house throw something at you the other day as he scolded you. I shook my head in despair as I went back into my house.

June 4

Dear Lucky,
My heart sank today. I was headed home, and you weren't in your yard. A large part of me hoped you got away, another large part of me was frightened at all the other possibilities. I asked my neighbor about you, and he said your family went on vacation and sent you back to the Animal Shelter. I shook my head and cried for you as I went into my house.

June 5

Dear Dog,
I went to the shelter today. I found you huddled in the back of a cage that had a bucket, a bowl of food, and a blanket for you to lie on. You looked up at me as if you knew me, and my heart broke as I read your card. They did not even care enough to give them your name, and the card simply said, "male, neutered retriever mix. Owners did not want." I cried when a gentleman from the kennel said, "That's a sad one there. He came from here, you know, last Christmas. Guess they just got tired of him. He's too frightened, no one will adopt him." I went to the counter and told them I would be back tomorrow and please don't do anything just yet. They all kind of nodded like they heard that one before.

June 6

Dear Dog,
I brought you home today. You were scared and untrusting, but a small part of you somewhere allowed you to wag the tip of your tail when I told you that you were a good boy and that I loved you. I gave you a new name, "Happy", because you aren't and I hope that someday you will be. You had an accident on the floor, and when I came back to clean it up with paper towel you slunk down and whimpered as if the hand was coming for you. I tried to choke back the tears when I thought of what you must have gone through in the past six months. I reached out and patted you and your eyes closed and your body went limp at such a gentle gesture. "We're going to be all right," I told you. I showed you your food, and you ate voraciously, and you marveled at the treats and toys I got for you.

December 25

Dear Happy,
Good morning my best friend! You woke me, as always, popping out from under the covers on your side of the bed, licking my face to tell me it was time for our walk. We went through the living room and you sniffed what Santa left for us. I hugged you and said, "Last year you were a Christmas gift, now this year, these are all yours!" Your coat is shiny, your belly always full, and even though we found out at your first vet visit you had heartworms, you are healthy now. As we went out for our walk, we saw your old family in the front yard. They look at you each time as if they recognize you in a way, but you don't give them a second glance. --- Then I believe both our hearts stopped as we saw the children emerge from the yard holding a small playful puppy. "Isn't she just precious? We got her from the animal shelter. Hope this one works out, the other dog we got from there was so much trouble." I sighed and refrained from pointing out that you were not the trouble. You looked up at me as if to say, "Thank you, mom." I kneeled down and whispered in your sweet ear, "No, it is I who thank you."

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Oh my oh my, now I am crying. That was so touching and so sad because it is sooooooooo true. I ache for every unloved, unwanted, mistreated animal. I do not understand how people who seem responsible and good intentioned can do this to poor innocent creatures. It literally breaks my heart and I am sure there is not a person in this group who does not feel the exact same way.

I wish there was more I could do on a personal level to keep this from happening but it is such a problem that a person begins to feel helpless. I continue to care for my pets and try to give homes to the unwanted and pray that others are doing the same.

Please, this is not a lecture because I know most of you are already doing this...but let me repeat....please, spay and neuter your animals and Do NOT breed or buy while homeless die. What more can I say?

Thanks for the reminder, Mairenn.

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9 months ago
Ditto, Cndy; I couldn't say it any better. It was all I could do to read the entire post, for fear of how it would end.

Too many of these stories end where I was afraid it might. Adopt at rescues/shelters, spay or neuter (many shelters make this an adoption requirement), and don't ever give someone a pet for Christmas, birthday or any other event. Too often, interest is lost when the novelty wears out or the recipient comes to realize how much responsibility there is in having a pet.

I'm glad this story ended the way it did; many don't.

Thank you, Mairenn. I don't like tears for lunch.
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9 months ago
Cindy, I know what you mean by feeling helpless to amend this tragic and all too frequent scenario, so I try to do what I can by repeating the same mantra over and over out loud to anyone within earshot: spay or neuter your pets and adopt shelter/rescue animals! Knowledge is power and one of our most effective weapons to stop this vicious cycle of the "disposable" pet.

It continues to amaze me that there are some who cannot make the leap that a barking dog is a bored, restless, attention-seeking creature who craves human interaction in the form of exercise, play, kind words, and genuine affection. We're not talking neurosurgery here...I'd better stop before I blow out an artery in my head from getting too worked up! Then, we would be talking neurosurgery.

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9 months ago
The simple answer to this endlessly repeated scenario is education. The most successful adoption organizations are the ones that have follow-up counseling for new adopters.

As someone who does breed dogs, I took the time to educate myself about the problem of homeless pets before I ever had my first litter. Over the years, I have turned many potential owners away, as they were not able to provide a forever home for the puppy or adult or rescue that I was trying to place. I am a resource during the lifetime of the dog I have placed and I have taken back several and rehomed them.

I have often felt it is not the dogs who should be licensed, but rather the owners. A short course on the responsibilities of a pet owner and the needs of the pet being contemplated might result in fewer dogs being returned to shelters as behavior problems. Partnerships between shelters and local trainers could make training classes available at low cost to adopters. In many cases, well meaning people wind up over their heads with dog behavior issues because they think the dogs will respond to the same type of management as children do, including yelling and hitting.

I knew a fellow who had a dog that kept leaving his partially fenced yard and when the dog would finally come to the irate owner HE USED TO HIT HIM! When I explained that he was doing an excellent job of teaching the dog to avoid him at all costs, he was astounded!

Education. It really is the silver bullet.
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9 months ago
So many people out there do not realize that animals have emotional needs as well as basic stuff - food, shelter and water - and they should not be considered disposable items. I would love to have a dog but cannot give it the time and energy it deserves right now as I work all day and it's only me. Different story after retirement though! I do have 2 cats and I have made sure they will be cared for in the event that anything happens to me. My sisters who have pets have done the same. My 2 were strays that someone threw out and I have watched them go from being hungry, sick and scared to healthy, loved and having quite the attitudes. They give to me as much as I give to them and I think that's the missing piece with a lot of people. They don't get it and unfortunately I don't think they ever will. Thankfully there are people like you Mairenn. Thanks for the happy ending!
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9 months ago
WOW...talk about a tough story with a great message!! Thanks for reminding how important ALL the animals are in our lives & what we commit to when we take them into our homes, hearts, and lives. Great post!!
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9 months ago
I realize, there is a point to the letter, but it made me to sad. I love my animals like I do my children. I can't imagine any of my children doing that to their animals. I know those things happen and that it's awful, I also think we have an obligation to make it right for animals that we see treated like that. There are laws agains animal abuse. To me that was grouse obuse.
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9 months ago
I don't know where you got this from but it was the most beautiful heart-wrenching story I've read in a long time. I too get all my pets from the humane society and I know no matter what the card says theres always another side to the story. Most of them just need to be loved and they love you back ten times over. Thank you so much for sharing this with me,
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9 months ago

This was a letter to my mother shortly after I got my Black lab puppy (Delilah) . She was about 5 weeks old and to be Euthanized in two more days.

"The day I got Delilah, I heard the sighs of her heart. I took the time to stop and listen. Thats why she's here with me. Oh and by the way, I don't own her....She owns me!!!!

I can't do enough to make a difference for every dog in the world
But I can do all I know how to make a world of difference for for this dog"

Owning any animal is a commitment and not to be taken lightly. These are living breathing creatures and are not like a toy that can be returned to the store. They are not Bic lighters that are disposable!

Your letters to a dog were touching to say the least.

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9 months ago
This story has so much truth to it..that it hurts!!!!!!
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9 months ago
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