Lady...It's the Can Do and The Want To thing that hits at age of about 50 to 60.....
To have the Can Do a man has to have the Want To....
Testosterone is the key.
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Don't get it on you...Sounds like your running on Testosterone Drive now....Women do that at about your age and will need to look at Testosterone at a later date. Say about 50 to 55.
Hi Kay,
Our needs change as we age and perhaps he’s seeking stimulus outside his comfy environment in order to grow again if he feels he’s become stalemate. He might be suffering low male hormone levels. He could be interested in someone else he’s chatting with. He might even be at an age when he’s not hormone driven and needs more intimacy not just sex and familiarity.
If he were my guy, the first thing I’d do after having a “heart to heart” with him, is to get him to a professional medical doctor to have his hormone levels tested. If his testosterone is low they can do replacement therapy that might make your love life sizzle all over again.
If he’s looking outside of you to others for the “intimacy” he craves…then its time for you to give him what he needs and the only way you will know that is, is to pull him in as close as possible to build that loving relationship he craves.
Don’t demands sex. He’s not as young as he was even four years ago and maybe he has some things going on that he is embarrassed to share. Never forget that he is a “man” and treat him with the dignity and respect of being one. Be kind but straight with him and eventually you’ll get to the truth of the matter.
If he can’t ‘perform’ the way he used to, even with the little blue pill, then perhaps you can find other ways to satisfy your own needs and just love him…share with him and enjoy the times that you can be that close even if they aren’t as frequent as they used to be.
Genteelsbelle
