good question.....I dated a guy ( maybe 3 times) he had been married and divorced 4 times and had one live in.....and he had no idea what he was doing wrong. Makes you wonder. No....I found him to be NOT dating material. I have dated a guy that was married and divorced twice...according to him...he did nothing wrong....but he was accused of doing things wrong. But the problem I have there.....it takes two most of the time..
Hey! Hey! Hey! You guys picking on me? OK, let's see, married 4 times, of those, widowed once, divorced twice (my choice) and the fourth one is currently on probation.
In my favor, first marriage 14 years, current marriage 20 years. So I have demonstrated the capacity for long term ... ummm .... tolerance, at least.
Forgot to answer the question. I guess it would depend on what the dude was telling me.
Interesting, not one of the things on Match profiles. I'm with Marti, depends on the dude.
Ever see the picture of several female skeletons all dressed up sitting around a table, and the title is waiting for the perfect man ?
Well their are no perfect men. just many unrealistic women.
The answer is if you've been divorced 3-4 times, it's not them, it's you. Women make the final selection not men. I know,"That;s not true,", Yes it is because until you invite him to take a trip from twin peaks, down pleasant valley to moundsview and try too loose him in the Bermuda triangle, the decision isn't made.
WOW...I'm laughing so hard, and even if I wasn't, I wouldn't know what to say to that.....
Yahhhhhhhnehhhh! I really don't know what I think anymore. I used to look upon people who were married more than twice as real losers but then I got to know some of them and began to see that "stuff just happens" sometimes. I don't think anyone ever sets out deliberately to be married 5 times, at least I have never heard a young person setting that as their goal. But, we live in very volatile times and people's lives can change on a dime. So, who am I to judge?
A major problem with marrage is you want us to change, and we don't want you to change.
What's the problem ?. We don't and you do.
It's the Toilet seat syndrome..
Honey would you put the toilet seat down when you're through ?
I would think you wouldn't want to rely on it being down, but would check before you sat down.
But if it Nighttime I can't see if it's down
Well turn the light on and check
But I don't want to wake you with the light
You think your screaming when you sit on the cold toilet when the seat is up. won't wake me ?
The she buy a 14" thick toilet seat cover so the seat won't stay up, and our job becomes a three handed
job, so we just sit down to pee.
Then one day she See's us sitting down to pee and thinks to herself that isn't very masculine, what happened to the stud who make all that noise when he stood up and peed ?
Well that night she's turned off because the padded seat emasculated you in her subconscious
I won't even get into which way the toilet papaer should be hung
And so starts the downward spiral in your relationship
That is the most ridiculous load of crap I have read in a long time, IbenHad. And what does it have to do with the question as asked in the original post? You here just to ramble? That's what blogs are for.
