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More Rude People

I went to the mall area today. I saw: 2 cars parked in no parking zones with their emergency flashers on. Some might say these people were making pick-ups on large items, but do you have to park your car where it blocks the road? Then I got behind a couple of cars who were totally blocking traffic while they talked to one another out their driver's side windows. In holiday traffic!

It seems like you get a few really rude people and then everyone else gets pissed off and decides it's o.k. for them to do it too. Rudeness seems to be spreading. I try to make a point of being polite because there are so few out there anymore that we stand out. I stopped at the grocery store. I said to the check-out clerk, are you feeling bad today, because you aren't your usual smiling self. That got me a smile, just because I noticed. It's so easy, and it makes me feel good, too.

A lot of us get depressed this time of year, just because we buy into the dream. And the reality of the holiday just doesn't measure up to my ideal. That's all the more reason to be kind, so you can get some pleasure coming back.

It's also a good reason to drink a glass of wine tonight. LOL
JFKRJK's profile
I'll buy into both suggestions lol.
whims's profile

over 2 years ago
Bad behavior is like a disease that spreads... thanks for reminding us that we can change people's behavior by leading the way.
no1bookmark's profile

over 2 years ago
I learned a long long time ago that a smile is very contagious. I also learned that being nice in the face of rudeness usually pays off. Even when people are rude to me, I smile and thank them for their courtesy. I usually get a positive reaction. But then again, I have also been known to be very rude on occasion. I guess it's human nature at its' worst.
smokeyspop's profile

over 2 years ago
I smile at everyone I come in contact with, every person I pass by and I almost always get a smile back. Some people look startled, some stop me and tell me what a beautiful smile I have, but I usually get a reaction. It's not hard to do and it's great for tightening those lines around your mouth!
skinnyninny's profile

over 2 years ago
I reminded myself last night to "cool down" we had gone shopping downtown on mens night (haha) well I purchased 3 small things in one shop that was quite empty.......the lady was slow (OK no problem) then she disappeared. Went to get a box I thought......another lady came back....."who's being rung up"? she said "what?" ........well I thought I was but um......so having already given my name and address and signing something I thought I was done. No, she wanted my card again (twice) and redid the whole transaction again.....the other woman came back, apparently did not know what she was doing and the 3nd time she asked for my card again I was getting pissed, but bit my tongue and (I had 3 friends waiting for me) started to chat..........its not worth getting into a bad mood when you are Christmas shopping, sort of defeats the purpose of the "season" and it really is always a choice.
Espirit's profile

over 2 years ago
I love online shopping more and more - especially during this time of year. When I do have to go out in it I do find that when I smile and am kind, it pays dividends and just might make someone else's day.
mshadow22's profile

over 2 years ago
Everyone must have taken a happy pill today. I went grocery shopping and though the store was crowded most were pleasant and exchanged hellos. I'm short and there was always someone asking me if they could reach what I needed for me. I even got through the checkout in record time. Was definitely more pleasant than most grocery runs.
mshadow22's profile

over 2 years ago

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