Message 2649 of 4458

The Amazing Disappearig Cyber Lover

I've heard from lots of women, and quite a few men, too, now that I think about it, who have had an ongoing online relationship of some intensity, and then suddenly ...... -poof- ...... gone. They just disappear, without even the puff of smoke. Just..... gone. Never answer another email, disappear off the IM contact list, if it was here on Eons, no more PMs, maybe still have their profile up. But no more contact. Never any hints it was going to happen, never an explanation. Just gone.

What's up with that?
MartiInMexico's profile
Replies 1 - 10 of 21
I mean the other person disappeared. Sure didn“t word this post very well, did I.
MartiInMexico's profile

over 2 years ago
Well, I personally think it's 'cause they found someone else to spend their pms on. Or better yet.....they found a 3-d person closer to spend their quality time with. It just would be nice if they had the decency to drop you a line to explain, but that would be uncomfortable, and most people would rather avoid that. It's cowardly, but it's common.
usmcma's profile

over 2 years ago
Love the hat Marti

Ive seen it happen had other women PM me asking what did they do etc.. The answer is youve done nothing, those people (men and women) usually are looking for something and when something better comes along your history. No explanation and no reason. Its sad but that is why on line relationship are best kept as friends and not on line romances. Im not saying all end like this but quite a few do. I also have known this to happen on EONS (even though this is not a dating site). JMO

over 2 years ago
This is a very common problem. Happened to me a couple of times when I was doing online dating. Just when you think you have found someone worthwhile - WALA! Like magic their GONE! That's why I don't do the online thing anymore - it's way to frustrating. Why do they disappear? Who knows? It could be any one of a number of reasons not even worth speculating about.
anakris's profile

over 2 years ago
A bnird in the hand is better than three in the bush.LOL It helps to try thuogh
mlyoung's profile

over 2 years ago
Sh-t the spelling
mlyoung's profile

over 2 years ago
Found someone else they think they like better......or just plain old coward.
annieoak's profile

over 2 years ago
That happen to me about a month ago. I met the guy and we had the most beautiful time together. It was a dram date. And I never heard anymore from him he will not respond to the emails and we had plans on meeting his family for thanks giving. I felt bad and still from time to time still check my emails hoping to hear from him. He went all the way out to make our date special. I am glad I am not the only one that has taught me a lesson. I do not try to date online and I take every thing like a grain of salt. If it happens I might miss out on it online.lol.............................. .............................
mspumpkin's profile

over 2 years ago
I notice a couple men that use to be very active in this group have disappear from this group. But I heard they are still around. I do not date anyone from on-line, it may be good for other people, but I do not want a cyber person disappearing on me!
LisaRod's profile

over 2 years ago
I've never done any online dating. I just can't imagine how it works. I don't think it would work for me.
sophia21's profile

over 2 years ago
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