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Canada best for expats, Thailand best for love ...

Based on a survey of over 3,100 expatriates around the world by HSBC Bank International, which compared experiences while living and working abroad. May not be a terribly scientific study, and may have been geared more to corporate HR Departments.

But it's not without interest either:

Canada best for expats, Thailand best for love ...
Branwell's profile
That was a neat article. I wonder what the number of men and women were who answered that survey, whether a lot of women found love in Thailand, or was it only men.
MartiInMexico's profile

over 2 years ago
I can believe the part about the weather in Britain.

Good point about the survey responders, Marti, because I can remember a comment a friend made many, many years ago...something about 'Thai women are among the most beautiful in the world'.

I've never been to Canada, Branwell. The top city on my list to visit there is Montreal.

over 2 years ago
@MartiInMexico: Good questions. Piqued my curiosity. So I looked up the source report:

The HSBC Bank International Expat Explorer Survey 2009

First, the slogan of the HSBC Bank: "We provide offshore banking for customers in over 200 countries and territories." (That's pretty much the whole planet. They might have done better to say where they did not provide offshore banking.) "We launched this survey to help us better understand the needs of our many customers who live and work abroad."

My overall impression is that the HSBC Bank Expat Survey is more of a marketing tool to use in press releases to get their name before potential clients than any attempt at rigorous analysis.

HSBC vaunts this second annual survey as "the largest independent global survey of expats.... [M]ore than 3,100 expats ... from four continents described the opportunities and challenges they experience living away from home...."

They define an expatriate as "someone over the age of 18 years old who is currently living away from their home country (country of origin)".

To be included, a country had to have 30 or more respondents. Although the Canadian Press summary article gave the number of countries included as 26, in the report itself that number did not appear until page 14.

They did not give the breakdown by sex for "finding love" — even though they did collect data by sex. Sex-specific information appeared only once that I saw: "Male expats also tend to live abroad for longer than their female counterparts, with two-thirds (63%) of men versus 46% of women having lived abroad for more than five years...."

But the survey did report some interesting findings about expats and relationships:

"Those earning less are also more likely to find love, with expats earning less than $60,000 more likely to find love abroad than any other group – over a quarter of expats in this group. Similarly, expats over the age of 55 will have greater chances at finding their life partner – one in four expats around the world aged 55 and over have found love or a life partner whilst living abroad."

Sounds as though, for those of us over 55, it's better to be abroad if you're looking for a partner. I'd like to see the breakdown by country on that, because I doubt that the English-speaking regions of Canada would differ much from the American statistics.

The province of Québec, by contrast, is known for being a better than average place for finding romance at any age, if you speak French. (Outside Montréal, the population is 95% French-speaking, and probably fewer than a quarter of those are bilingual to any extent.)

@Tess57: I've spent a few weeks in Thailand, and the women there were beautiful, second in S.E. Asia only to Cambodians, IMHO (based on hearsay and a very small sample). Thai women are easy-going and always smiling, for one thing.

I'd nominate Québec women as the most attractive in North America, though they smile about as much as rural Minnesota women do in February. Temperamentally they're far more reserved than women from France, to the point that you'd never guess they had a common heritage going back 400 years.

Voilà! My two centavos. Hope you had as much fun with it as I did....
Branwell's profile

over 2 years ago
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, as I mention an old bromide.

My wife and I went overseas as a couple. Both of us worked with big corporations dealing with Uncle Sam's contractors and the military. But we always made a conscious effort to get out there in the local scene and not spend all of our time in the "foreign ghettos" even though we lived close to other expats.

For us, we liked the totally different cultures of the Far East and SE Asia. I like Canada, but in many ways, perhaps because of geography, it reminds me of the U.S.

As to finding love, I have many friends who went abroad single and found life partners in Thailand, the Philippines and Japan. Some guys got into some trouble in the Philippines and Thailand. The sex trade can be in your face in both places.
gorillagaurd's profile

over 2 years ago
I decided to retire early, and have been living in Chiang Mai, Northern Thailand, since August 2005.

I looked at several options, but decided on Thailand because of:

1. The inexpensive Cost of Living (medical insurance, housing, transportation, etc, etc, etc).

2.I LOVE the Thai people and their culture, the beaches and the mountains, etc, etc, etc.

I can still honestly say after 4.5 years, “Every day in every way, it’s getting better, and better, and better”.

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As far as ‘love’, I think Tina might (??) have been right with her:

You must understand
Though the touch of your hand
Makes my pulse react
That it's only the thrill
Of boy meeting girl
Opposites attract
It's physical
Only logical
You must try to ignore
That it means more than that

[Chorus:]
What's love got to do, got to do with it
What's love, but a second-hand emotion
What's love got to do, got to do with it
Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken

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My Eons blog: The Girls at the ‘Forget Me Not Bar’

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seattle99's profile

over 2 years ago
Branwell...Interesting statistics..thanks for sharing!

gorillagaurd...My youngest daughter wants to live her adult life in Tokyo..she's fascinated with the culture.

seattle99...Sounds like you've died and gone to heaven! :-)

over 2 years ago

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