Message 658 of 2233

Memories Nourish the Heart

Thanksgiving is now past...but yet there is still Christmas coming so close. At this season of the year ---so filled with memories and, for most people, family occasions ---sometimes our grief seems all but unbearable. And grief IS often especially sharp around holiday occasions.
But after a while we begin to savor the recall of those gathered times when we were all together, when the tenor of the days was festive and mutually cherishing. If our loved one had a particular role in the rituals of this season, we who take over that role may feel a special bond with the one who is gone.
So memory "nourishes the heart", eases the sharp edges of grief, and, whether or not we speak of it to one another, spreads its arms to comfort and to gather us as one family in the great human stream of life.
At this time of the year ---holiday season--- let your memories nourish your heart!!

Hugs of friendship....Jarcy
Jarcy's profile
You are so right....my daughter and I actually had a good laugh last night fondly remembering a Christmas memory....I believe that was a first for me!
Ohiowoman's profile

over 2 years ago
this is what memories are for, good times, that make you feel good.
It is a shame on people dwell on the bad memories instead of leaving them behind.
chillinjoan's profile

over 2 years ago
This is the first year alone without him so I just kept trying to think of the good times we had at Christmas.
disney2500's profile

over 2 years ago
there you go, give up the good feelings and don't let the bad enter your mind, leave them behind.
My Mike has been gone 7yrs now and each year I appreciate him even more yet also life gets easier as time passes.
It gets much better, I promise. Just seems like forever.
chillinjoan's profile

over 2 years ago
I agree with Chilinjoan my husband has been gone 4 years and it gets better, I promise also. it will seems like forever. I have great memories each year especially at christmas and then our anniversary is on January 2. Always keep the good memories alive.
keeton281's profile

over 2 years ago
Jarcy, I look forward to your sharing some of YOUR memories!
thmarty's profile

over 2 years ago

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