Why arre men agianist fullfigured women/

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posted by shywolf

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Not all of us are. I like a woman with a figure. Not as flat as plywood. And while I don't care for those that are obese, I do like extra ponds more than most.

posted by TheRifle
over 2 years ago

As women get older,I think they especially look better more filled out....
smoothes out the wrinkleds!

posted by xstorm
over 2 years ago

I'm not against full figured women, just against women who cannot spell against. Ha! :)

posted by earworms
over 2 years ago

Wow, I never thought my spelling skills would help me flirt! Against, against, against.

I have a question for you....why would you WANT a man who doesn't like full figures? Why want someone who won't be smitten, delighted, and thanking his lucky stars that you're his?

posted by Honeybee123
over 2 years ago

The only place I have had a problem with that is online dating which is a virtual marketplace for that little profile photo.

I know women heavier than myself who have very busy social lives, mainly because they feel good about themselves and they show it in the way they dress, walk and act.

A lot of guys are not interested in stick thin women, but they do want a woman who is healthy and takes care of herself. A great personality and a loving heart is important, but let's face it.. if you are grossly overweight, it's a sure sign there's something going on that needs tending to. I don't want someone that needs fixin and neither do they.

posted by Ladydulcinea
over 2 years ago

Wow , I didn't know that , personally I think Full figured women represent character and a living fully lived lives...

posted by bibi1955
over 2 years ago

Only a selecxt few men are accepting of full figure women or the ones that think if their woman is overweight they can hold on to them that way. But to really appreciate and complemnt a women who is a 14 and up and accept her as a stylish feminine sensual female is a rare find.

posted by Oceanbreez61
over 2 years ago

I'm am very thin. I'm going to play devil's advocate a bit here...

I like being with a man who makes me feel tiny. Maybe guys like feeling "big and strong". Might be harder with someome bigger than you.

Some people equate being overweight as lazy or sloppy.

Societal stigma might play a part too. The media portrays pretty as thin.

I do think it is unfair. I have many "full-figured" friends who have a lot to offer in a relationship.

posted by maryinva
over 2 years ago

They sure seem to like me.

posted by Estaven
over 2 years ago

I would think full figured would be attractive if it's not actual fat, which might prove to be a health issue.... I have the opposite problem, men don't seem to be interested in thin women...