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Message 170 of 191

We all know how things, 'USED' to be...you know, the good ole' days!
What about now? How has your relationship with your significant other changed since being diagnosed with MS?
Besides, not having MS...what would help make things better for the both of you?

C'mon....your pearls of wisdom may help some of us! Do tell...........

posted by JeannePie

It has changed a lot and not for the good, but I don't think it is the result of my having MS. I think we have just grown apart with different interests and values, different priorities.

posted by KatieDimon
over 2 years ago

Katie, sorry to hear that? How long have you been married? I know how you feel, been there, done that...didn't realize how miserable I was for so long until divorced and out of the situation! Boy, that can be stressful! Is he at least understanding, helpful in dealing with the ups and downs you go through with MS?

posted by JeannePie
over 2 years ago

We're not married Jeanne. We've just dated since before the days of dirt and rock. You know, he used to be understanding, but since he retired (again) he seems more interested in himself and what he wants to do. We don't see each other as much, and I have noticed that I feel less stressed when he's not here. That's sad after so many years, but c'est la vie!

posted by KatieDimon
over 2 years ago

Katie, yes that is sad, especially after being together for so long! But, I guess it is what it is. At least you recognize the distance between the two of you, and not totally blinded by the situation! Is it harder with him being home more, since retirement? But, can you count on him? Is he a support for you?

posted by JeannePie
over 2 years ago