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Hope

Concern over the role and function of hope in psychological development, motivation and psychological functioning has come under investigation. Psychotherapists have begun to take into account the place of hope in the therapeutic process, and also the influence of hopelessness on various forms of psychopathology.

From a psychological perspective, hope has been broadly characterized by Charles Richard ("Rick") Snyder (1944-2006) as the "will" and the "ways" to achieve our goals. Specifically, Synder defines hope "as the perceived capability to derive pathways to desired goals, and motivate oneself via agency thinking to use those pathways" (2002, p. 249). The first part involves feeling capable to create a reasonable plan of action (the "way") and the second part is the motivation to follow the plan (the "will").

A recent study indicates that hope is related to lower procrastination, which would seem to be the opposite of hope, wouldn't it? It has been theorized that the more hope a person has, the less he or she would procrastinate.

The resulting conclusion from one study on procrastination and hope determined, that, on the surface, it would seem that helping people become more hopeful might reduce their procrastination. For example, changing our attributions about a situation, known as "attributional retraining," may help. Rather than attributing a recent failure to a lack of ability (something we can't do much about or be hopeful about), we can learn to see the important role of effort in our performance and attribute our performance more to our effort (or lack thereof).

We can change effort and maintain hope in the future. I sure hope so.
MartiInMexico's profile
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In my humble opinion, it's also important to use supportive and empowering language.
This is the main thing most coaches do.
Words make a big difference, and when we are always reading and hearing discouraging words ... well.
BarbInBend's profile

over 2 years ago
I spend several hours a day messing around in the stock market. At eye level, on the edge of a bookshelf is taped a note. It reads: "HOPE is not an investment premise".

Actually - Hope - - is the birthplace of Prez Clinton. :-)
wilful's profile

over 2 years ago
Dilbert: "Experience is just another word for having no hope"
searching1's profile

over 2 years ago
I understand Marti. Thanks
vetro1's profile

over 2 years ago
Mathematically expressed as "confidence" in statistical analysis I suppose.
But where does hope fall on the number-line with regards to faith and the placebo effect?
I wonder.
MisterScience's profile

over 2 years ago
Whenever I've been in a hopeless state, I find other people to be infuriating, because of the things they say. The common things like "Think positive." "Relax." "It will be better soon." "Get some rest." While these may all be true to some extent, it sounds like "Take 2 aspirin and go to bed." These are all so far from helping one cope with hopelessness, which is despair in my book, and that is not a simple thing to deal with.

Actually, the biggest help is the fact these same people make me angry. It kicks in a survival instinct in me. I can't count on anyone to help, so I have to help myself. I get sick of myself, too. Then, I kick myself in the bum, and go to work. I'm not sure anyone could be as effective in getting me over despair as I am. I can't stand seeing myself a pitiful mess of spineless matter. So, I grow a spine and stand up straight.

Procrastination seems a form of denial and escape, in light of despair. I see that as the opposite of "will and way". I've never found a solution other than biting the bullet and doing it.

What removes hope in the first place? For me, it is not realizing something significant that I want, due to lack of ability, or someone else's choice. Neither of which means I am a bad person or undeserving. Accepting reality ASAP is the best way to avoid the slide into hopelessness. So, I think self image plays an important role in arriving at "where there is a will, there is a way".

People whose self image is dictated by others are in for trouble. It is so important for people to see themselves in the right way, both good and not so good, then take control and work on the not so good. We have to accept our limitations and find a workaround.

Realistic goals are a must as well. That doesn't mean people can't dream, they just have to know it is a dream until they make it a reality.

Just one wallower's experience in source and finding a way out of hopelessness.

over 2 years ago
Jean-Paul Sartre argued that the human condition is essentially one of hopelessness; Camus agreed. Where they disagreed was whether hopelessness was identical with despair: Sartre said yes, Camus said no.
searching1's profile

over 2 years ago
Fascinating search. What was the basis of their viewpoints? Obviously - we're gonna die; Mortality being the ultimate human condition. I suppose this presupposes a hope for immortality which is usually expressed as ready-and-waiting afterlife. So - Sartre and Camus apparently believed they had no loving God waiting for them on the other side of life's veil. And this was a bummer for Sartre but Camus was cool with just being wormfood?

Sounds like Sarter would have been easy pickings for the evangelists if he wasn't so introspective.
MisterScience's profile

over 2 years ago
Sartre also said the cure for this existential hopelessness was action. I agree with him. With this, you can see the connection between procrastination and hopelessness, and between action and hope.

Wilful, I used to tell my students prior to a test, that hope was not a study strategy.
MartiInMexico's profile

over 2 years ago
I control what I can control... Change what I can change, and deal with the remainder.

Then go fishing...

FW
FlyWacko's profile

over 2 years ago
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