knj, I am so sorry that you need to be here, but you do need to be here! We have all been through the agony you feel. Those who have been spared the loss of a child can not understand what we go through. Please share your lovely daughter with us. We care and know how you feel.
I responded to the previous post but let me say again. We are here for you and we offer you a soft place to fall whenever you need comforting.
My heart breaks for you. If I can offer you anything at all it is to let you know that even when you think you can't go on....you can and you will. Your grief is so new that you may not feel like you will ever get through this. We were all in your shoes and we all survived and are here to walk with you through your grief journey. I wish you Peace.
Hello,
I am so sorry you lost your beautiful daughter. If wishes could come true there would be no need for this group. Like you, we have all prayed that this is all an ugly, horrible nightmare and soon we will wake up and hold our babies in our arms once more. But here we are still; and our hearts are breaking for you.
I can only speak from my experience. I have found that the pain will never go away, but it will get easier to bear. It will take, what seems like, an eternity just to wake up one day without that pain in your heart.
Please know there is no right or wrong way to grieve. Just try and get through each day, however you can.
Thinking of you.
Sandra
I add my welcome to all the others. Here you will find someone who listens and really understands, people who have had the same feelings and emotions, the same questions of why. Here is a soft place to fall with arms to hold and hearts overflowing. Welcome to the group we wish we didn't need to have. Huuuuugggggggs, JoAnne