Message 2752 of 4458

"My Husband/Wife Doesn't Understand Me"

What does it mean when someone who is married says "My husband/wife doesn't understand me"? Does it mean they are just looking for a sympathetic ear to listen to their marital woes or is it an indication that they may infact sometime soon be leaving their marriage? Just what is your take on this?
anakris's profile
It means - "My husband/wife DOES understand me and I don't like what they see! HaHa
Cathiebeth's profile

over 2 years ago
They are looking for a affair, I have noticed married men or women on the prowl always use this line expecting sympathy and are not going to leave their spouse and usually only care for something on the side.
SiberianTigress's profile

over 2 years ago
It means they are looking for some action on the side.....also hear my wife/husband live like brother and sister....yeah right!!!
annieoak's profile

over 2 years ago
lookin for nookie
poolgrandma's profile

over 2 years ago
I have a friend who is currently being hoodwinked by a guy who is saying his wife doesn't understand him. I do agree this guy is looking for "nookie" as poolgrandma said. But, my friend is hopeful that he will eventually leave his wife. Personally, I think holding out hope for a guy/gal like this is a total waste of time but nothing I have said seems to matter. My friend has grown to "love" this guy and that's all that seems to matter to her.
anakris's profile

over 2 years ago
Kiss him goodbye is what your friend should do Anakris, relationships like this never work and I think it is wrong to get involved with someone married to begin with for even if they leave their spouse what they did to the previous husband or wife they will probably do to you as well.
SiberianTigress's profile

over 2 years ago
ana, it may be that going with him is one of her lifes lessons, something she has to find out for herself. I doubt he will ever leave his wife for anyone, just as you see, and if he does she can bet that soon after they are together, he will do the same to her. Its all about them and what they want. Just be there for your friend when it ends, as it surely will. She will say, why didnt I listen to you?...The truth is SHE has to get enough of it before that will happen.
kdfn's profile

over 2 years ago
If someone said that to me, I would just flat out ask them what they really are trying to say.
chillinjoan's profile

over 2 years ago
Sounds like someone is very unhappy... and they are looking to screw around. It does with the title of complicated when as what type of relationship they are in ... Yea right....

over 2 years ago

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