It means - "My husband/wife DOES understand me and I don't like what they see! HaHa
They are looking for a affair, I have noticed married men or women on the prowl always use this line expecting sympathy and are not going to leave their spouse and usually only care for something on the side.
It means they are looking for some action on the side.....also hear my wife/husband live like brother and sister....yeah right!!!
I have a friend who is currently being hoodwinked by a guy who is saying his wife doesn't understand him. I do agree this guy is looking for "nookie" as poolgrandma said. But, my friend is hopeful that he will eventually leave his wife. Personally, I think holding out hope for a guy/gal like this is a total waste of time but nothing I have said seems to matter. My friend has grown to "love" this guy and that's all that seems to matter to her.
Kiss him goodbye is what your friend should do Anakris, relationships like this never work and I think it is wrong to get involved with someone married to begin with for even if they leave their spouse what they did to the previous husband or wife they will probably do to you as well.
ana, it may be that going with him is one of her lifes lessons, something she has to find out for herself. I doubt he will ever leave his wife for anyone, just as you see, and if he does she can bet that soon after they are together, he will do the same to her. Its all about them and what they want. Just be there for your friend when it ends, as it surely will. She will say, why didnt I listen to you?...The truth is SHE has to get enough of it before that will happen.
posted by kdfn
over 2 years ago
If someone said that to me, I would just flat out ask them what they really are trying to say.
Sounds like someone is very unhappy... and they are looking to screw around. It does with the title of complicated when as what type of relationship they are in ... Yea right....