Sex on the First Date?
I lost my virginity at the age of 17, and I never looked back. Recently, I started dating on-line. More recently, I started dating a very hot guy who called before we even met and drew me in to some very hot phone sex. Then about a week later, we met in person. I debated for a bit about whether to play the coy engenu or just pull down my pants and have fun. I decided to set up my camping tent in the front yard and make a love nest for our first date. He loved it (and so did I).
During dinner (he did not know about the tent yet), he said how frustrating, and perhaps silly, it was to have to go through the adolescent stages of dating as a sexually experienced, divorced man: holding hands, kissing a bit, second base, etc. Then if no chemistry existed, he would have to start that silliness all over again.
I understood his point of view completely (hence the pre-planned love nest). But frnakly, it is a little weird to have sex the first time you meet someone in this wierd world of on-line dating.
I hope that the women who read this know what I am talking about. The silly goddess-whore stuff men can bring to the relationship. Bay boomer men, I am especially interested in your perspective.
P.S. He is still hot, and we are still dating.
Thoughts? Comments?
During dinner (he did not know about the tent yet), he said how frustrating, and perhaps silly, it was to have to go through the adolescent stages of dating as a sexually experienced, divorced man: holding hands, kissing a bit, second base, etc. Then if no chemistry existed, he would have to start that silliness all over again.
I understood his point of view completely (hence the pre-planned love nest). But frnakly, it is a little weird to have sex the first time you meet someone in this wierd world of on-line dating.
I hope that the women who read this know what I am talking about. The silly goddess-whore stuff men can bring to the relationship. Bay boomer men, I am especially interested in your perspective.
P.S. He is still hot, and we are still dating.
Thoughts? Comments?
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by Levisa





