Les, my heart is with you. Pain seems to revisit us in clusters, doesn't it? All we can do is remember the love.
hugs...marty
You take care of yourself during this difficult week filled with memories.
Please try remembering good times enjoyed by all and a funny moment - cherish them all -
Wishing you a Lioght Heart
Chris
Try and remember all of the good times you all had. That should help you get through the next few days.
It's hard to ignore the anniversary dates and the sadness, and so many for you at once. The only way is to go through them, ---and do the best you can. Do take care. Nancy
Hi it is important to take care of your self. The shock is so hard to cope with. You can do it. I am doing it even though my husband left morre money to live on It took me off programs for my disability.So I had to buy my own insurance., lucklu AARP gave me a 30$ discountAND ACCEPTED MY PREEXISTING CONDTIONS. Pre existing conditions are the reason people can nort get health insurance. Having more money put me on a spending spree. I was still in shock. I had to get help from my daughter to get myself centered again.
I find out I am poorer than when I was on disability. I get to much for the perks I used to get.
Please besure to take a shower and eat breakfast. And it is alright to cry. My husbands death just thre me off center. And it reminded me of my other husbands deaths I married older men.
20 years older. My last husband was my age. I thought we could grow old together. It just was not ment to be.
And it i good o have friends to around. i am glad I live in this SEnior building they have a lot of parties and get togethers. It ereally helps. This is the holidays and it can be rough especially if when you did things together. I place a plate and folk and spoon and knife in his place were he would of sat in our holiday dinner. I still honor him as his memories of happiness are still with us.
Maybe that would help. And medically crying is good for our bodies to keep our bodies strong. Letting it hang out is the best thing.
Everyone where I live understand.It is so nice to have others who understand.
Anna a brightsoul.
