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Life is change, or the world would be bored to death.
Embrace this new part of your life, look forward to it,
Erase any dread or negativity from your mind about anything.
visualize how your new life is going to be and how exciting it is.
All is well in your world, love it.

I just moved to North Carolina from Maine, leaving a house I've been in for 20 years. Only 2.5 acres, but mostly cleared with a swimming pool, hot tub, and large lawn to take care of by myself. But, I guess I've kind of cheated.....I rented my house in Maine to a young couple that I trust and who may buy it if they can get financing. I have also rented a house in N.C., giving myself time to adjust and really know if I want to do this. I've only been here since September, but I really believe now that this is the move I want to make. I thought I would really miss my house in Maine, but surprisingly I don't. I do miss my friends but since I had to spend so much time taking care of the property I didn't see them all that much. And, it's not as if I came by covered wagon and can never go back! It's only a two day trip by car and much shorter by plane....amazing plane fares these days.

Good luck in your decision. Consider it a great adventure, it's amazing how young it makes me feel.

I am sad to hear this but I do understand. I also have been considering selling my place and moving to South America for a much better coast of living. I could live well there on SS. I just can't go tell mom's gone.

Babs, you were smart to rent for the time being. Annie, that might be good for you too. Whenever we had to move, we always rented in a new area until we figured out what was the best place for us. And I also have a condo and a big dog. He doesn't care, I have a little back yard, but it is just enough for us and I even get to grow some vegetables and flowers, you just think small.

I have thought about renting until I can find what I want....I may have to do that. I feel sure I will have to put some stuff in storage until I know what I need. So many things to think about.....and like I said...this house may set on the market for a long time......soooooo who knows what tomorrow holds.

I rented for a year after I sold my house, mainly because I didn't know what I wanted...another house or a townhouse. Renting gave me the time I needed and eventually, I opted to buy another house. I've been really comfortable with my decision, but interestingly, I now feel as if I could move again and not have all the angst that I did at that time. I feel more open to possibilities. It's a nice feeling.