It sounds as if this is something you really needed to do so congratulations. Make sure to get a good lawyer. I wish you the best and am sending good vibes your way.
Thank you witchy! I plan on having a BIG FAT PARTY on DEC 2 lol
Good for you! I'm sorry you even had to go through any of that, but life deals us bum hands sometimes. Sounds like you fixed things up just like you needed too! Sending you good thoughts!
good for you yet please take care of yourself, you lost your friend, you will miss the relationship in weird ways - take time to heal
posted by maia6
over 2 years ago
good for you SL.
i moved out 5 months ago
same thing - constant emotional abuse
this is the happiest I've been in 5 -6 years
you'll be fine without him
just stick it out
posted by AZOTH
over 2 years ago
when asked about the end of my marriage about regrets - it is easy to say i am happier now than living in a home were i was ignored and belittled daily.
one day i was watching a movie and the couple kissed and i realized that i had not been kissed in 7 years beyond a peck. life is too short .....
posted by maia6
over 2 years ago
Glad you made the decision to get him out. Once he leaves you will feel so much better.
I remember that day....he helped me move to my new apartment and when he dropped me and my stuff off, I sat on the bed alone in my quiet little apartment and felt so peaceful....it was like a weight was lifted off of me.
That was 15 years ago....and I have stayed single, except for a pig or 2 in between because I like sausage so much....lol
posted by mizvic
over 2 years ago
Emotional abuse can be the worst because the marks it leaves are not visible- hidden inside. Sometimes can be difficult to recover from, even after getting away. You have taken the first step...the most difficult, because their game is to belittle, batter, weaken and break our confidence and spirit. Congratulations...hope your life only improves from this point on!
