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The Mysterious Pull of Sychonicity

I was talking to someone about the shooting at Fort Hood. This person was stunned by the fact that a family member was 'just there, at a nearby town, yesterday.'

I have noticed this phenomenon before. When something occurs, people's first reaction is to take note of having been coincidentally in that vicinity, days before the occurrence.

Of if someone not particularly close to them dies, they will say, I just saw that person two weeks ago. Or if it was a celebrity who died, they might say, I just saw their movie two night ago.

None of these things have any connection to the event. They were not involved in the event in any way. But we somehow have a need to make note of these seeming coincidences.

I wonder why.
MartiInMexico's profile
People feel the need to talk and the things that you mention may be all that seem appropriate when talking about death.
MrTSauce's profile

about 1 month ago
...or is it more like "name dropping" that some people do?
LifeLoveLaughter's profile

about 1 month ago
I'm thinking that this speaks to a personal connection, as opposed to a more sterile articulation of mere facts. It is in this way that events have the most meaning to us.
badgerrr's profile

about 1 month ago
...so it's more like, "I'm just thinking out loud" sort of thing? I can see that ...
LifeLoveLaughter's profile

about 1 month ago
The human animal finds great joy and meaning finding patterns in events and numbers.
wot53's profile

about 1 month ago
Is the equivalent of a "drive by" considered synchronicity? Could there be some psychic activity there, rather than synchronicity?
peacewithin's profile

about 1 month ago
I think it is just our natural ego-centric view of the world . We think that things only have meaning insofar as they can be directly connected to ourselves
Dirck's profile

about 1 month ago
What Dirck said.
searching1's profile

about 1 month ago
The synchronistic timing gives the event a personal meaning and a moment to pause and have gratitude that for the moment, we are safe. I felt that way when we decided not to stay in San Francisco an extra day on vacation. The next day, when an earthquake caused vehicles to be squashed like pancakes, I was not there. I have relatives that were in Sri Lanka at the coast three days before the tsunami happened ... they had moved on to another area of the country, higher ground. It gives one pause to realize "that could have been me", if the timing had been just a little different.
BarbInBend's profile

about 1 month ago