Can we call you Mr. Whipple LIV?
As far as who I choose to go out with on a date.....standards haven't changed all that much....but as far as who I am interested in getting to know better better other than casual dates....much pickier.
i have raised the bar,,instead of looking in the gutter, i am up on the curb...
raising the bar as i continue to evolve...
posted by maia6
about 1 month ago
seriouly :
lately I have been consciously raising my bar, I was so lonely was going out with everything that had a pulse (literally) but slowly have been adding things that will ensure a good relationship, traits that are important to me
you can be dating someone and still be lonely inside, if that person is not what you know you truely are looking for.
absolutely liv... i am determined to either be alone or with someone who enhances my life in more ways than one...
posted by maia6
about 1 month ago
I have not raised nor lowered the bar. I have just redefined the bar so I know what I am looking for.
well i have a much clearer picture of what kind of woman would click with me so i'm not sure it's as much about rasin or lowerin the bar as it is about compatability .. sometimes you like someone even tho you know that you're really not on the same page and poor choices for a match yet you do it anyway because you're smitten or just lonely .. i know you're never gonna find anyone perfect but there are some traits that can make or break a relationship ..
My bar is not high, I just know what I want in my life, it's very simple to me.
I am not lonely and very happy as things are. I keep an open mindset so not to miss anything God might send my way.
As I have said before "I complete myself, you would be a gift".
For a date...clean, lots of your own teeth, not so much grey hair. I feel like dates should be for getting to know one another but you should care about your appearance at least. I don't want to take someone out for the first time in sweats and tennis shoes, sorry. So I consider my date bar rather low...so low in fact that if you trip over it walking down the street...we're on a date lol. My relationship bar is very different but that wasn't the question now was it?
posted by dad4evr
about 1 month ago
