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Obama's Brother Speaks Out

ZHOU, China -- The mixed-race son of a brilliant but troubled Kenyan academic and a white American woman writes an emotionally wrenching book about his search for identity and self.Photobucket Pictures, Images and PhotosThis is not the familiar story of President Obama. It is the tale of his publicity-shy younger half-brother, Mark Okoth Obama Ndesandjo, who has lived in the southern Chinese city of Shenzhen for seven years and has just produced a loosely autobiographical work of fiction titled "Nairobi to Shenzhen: A Novel of Love in the East."

Barack Obama Sr. married Mark's mother, Ruth Nidesand, while he was studying at Harvard after divorcing President Obama's mother, Stanley Ann Dunham. The elder Obama and Nidesand lived together in Nairobi, the Kenyan capital, where Mark spent much of his childhood.

How much of the book is true?

While he allowed that some of the characters are composites, he said many scenes echoed his own experience as a victim of, and witness to, domestic violence.

"My father beat me. He beat my mother. And you just don't do that," Ndesandjo said later. "I shut those thoughts in the back of my mind for many years."

"I remember times in my house when I would hear the screams, and I would hear my mother's pain," he said. "I was a child. . . . I could not protect her."

Ndesandjo said his memories of his father were so bitter that he stopped using the name Obama and adopted the last name of his stepfather, a man Ruth Nidesand married after divorcing Barack Obama Sr. But then, Mark Ndesandjo said, he watched the televised scenes of joy in Chicago's Grant Park the night a man with that hated last name was elected president of the United States.

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obamamama's profile
When I was a kid growing up, getting the crap beat out of you was accepted, I remember being brought home by the police, and the cop wouldn't leave until my father started punching me around! I would go to school with my eye swelled shut, and the teacher would say you must have done something pretty bad to get that! My how times have changed!
loko's profile

20 days ago
Great article. I posted it on Facebook.
macscout's profile

18 days ago
When I was young it was my mother that would reach for the first thing in her path to swing. Mostly she grabbed a belt but had no idea of which end she was swinging.

Then came the day when I was about 8 years old and she insisted that my father set his foot down and spank my for the first time in his life. He took me into an adjacent room and started to scold me. Each time he made a scolding remark he hit the arm of the chair with the belt. He never did spank me a single time of my life, but it was him I feared if I did something wrong. Not that he might spank me but that I might disappoint him.

I wonder now that my mom is 91 years old what she would think if I ever told her he never spanked me (Probably would never remember and might claim she never did either). She is loved now that she turned into a sweet little old lady!

I wish I could be as kind to those sisters at St. Vincent's Academy! I never had the nerve or desire to be bad but I do remember seeing those cops grabbing other kids by the collar to take them home.
Valius's profile

17 days ago