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Its is strange to visit life and the passage of time, I have just completed this short but necessary journey visiting my cousin whom is 80 years old single now and divorced and recovering from a stroke his speech is impaired , but the richness in his spirit is profound and just outgoing as a gentile southern follow, in his spare time he makes quilts just wonderful quilts vintage design with patience and time.

In my visit it was a 34 year absence from my first broken heart , i reached out to my past to say to her im sorry about her loss of her mom, first was my first love like most my moments of that time was awesome , so after 34 years i had to say something to her to recognize her loss last year twice and the loss of your spouse as well, anyway a friend that was close to us said to me it was good that i contacted her , it was as if time stood still , she sounded just like she did 34 years ago, and said the same things , like only she could be careful on the road and such,

even though its been 34 years it was clear to me this was the one i should have married it seems her life paralleled mine , so outside of my cousin and a possible renewal of a life with her how would you approach this possibility in your life?

the memories are not all bad for me at all