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My Mother Was Love

This is the piece I plan to read at my mother's funeral tomorrow

My Mother Was Love

My mother was love
Her love spoke softly and gently with words
Loudly and fiercely with her heart

We knew her grace and patience
As a mother, sister, wife and friend

She loved the parents who traveled across the ocean
To make a better life

She loved her children
Whom she didn't always understand
But still accepted and embraced

She loved her husband
He took care of her
And she, him until he left this life

She loved her friends
She loved bingo, even though she seldom won
She loved doing puzzles, reading and rummy
She loved to sing
Whether standards, or The Beatles
Singing moved her, and we smiled
When she lifted her voice
And our spirits, in song

She was glamorous and beautiful as a movie star
Yet wasn't above making funny faces

She bore emotional and physical pain
With dignity and quiet courage

There is a picture of a waterfall
With a quotation from Corinthians
That hangs in the room I slept in last night
That says what I've been trying to say here:

"Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast
It is not proud"

So I say
My Mother Was Love

November 1, 2009
Crindaguitar's profile
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Dear Corinne, that's a fine tribute to your mother, and so much more meaningful than so much of what we hear at funerals. Some eulogies are so juiceless and generic they could apply to everyone in the room. Your words are for and about your beloved Mother and no one else.

I'll be thinking of you tomorrow, dear Corinne.
claybo's profile

about 1 month ago
What a marvelous lady she was. She has passed on her gift of song to you. Keep the flame going. God bless you as you bear this most heavy burden. Warmly, PJ
Pajarito's profile

about 1 month ago
Thank you both
Crindaguitar's profile

about 1 month ago
Your words create a beautiful picture of her. Be strong in your grief. She is smiling down at you and singing with you.
JaneCrichton's profile

about 1 month ago
Thank you Jane. That's a lovely thought. :-)
Crindaguitar's profile

about 1 month ago
You are her legacy. Sing about her! Write about her! It helps. {{{crindaguitar}}}
greydiva's profile

29 days ago
Thank you again greydiva :-)
Crindaguitar's profile

29 days ago
What a sweet way to immortalize your mom.She was, as you expressed, LOVE....
I send you prayers for strength, and comfort..
Hobbit
hobbit53's profile

29 days ago
Thank you very much hobbit.
Crindaguitar's profile

28 days ago
a beautiful poem for a beautiful woman, a beautiful mother . . . may you always be comforted by memories of her beauty and her love for you . . .
windnsea's profile

26 days ago
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