I think many of them are very lonely, for various reasons and, for as many more reasons, are "stuck" in their marriages. I have learned not to judge, you may one day find yourself in a such a situation!
P.S.....some are just plain jerks!
I don't need to write anything here since I agree with the vast majority. Kind of feel the same way about the Open Marriage question. Of course, one woman is often more than I can handle anyway. lol. Having two or more in my life would require some good drugs.
Is looking really cheating? I thought cheating was when you do a lot more than just look.
If you are married and looking, then you are probably already to the point of no return.
Some people are in failed marriages or loveless, sexless marriages and need more than what they are getting. However divorce is costly and can have repercussions. Children or family may be involved. Finances, credit can be ruined etc. Social stigmas.
Sometimes cheaters have no heart, other times they are driven by their hearts.
You certainly can fall out of love with someone or regret having married them. We often make hasty or bad decisions when we are younger.
Sure, it's morally wrong, but isn't divorce morally wrong too?
I kind of think "looking" for a new partner in life is like looking for a new job. New ones are hard to find. Best to hold on to the old one until you find a better one.
Maybe they aren't getting enough at home,it could be a lots of things.