My one (1) other flame recently found me on Facebook. I was surprised that I actually got so nervous that I briefly closed my account. Interested in these answers.
posted by gmom5
over 2 years ago
Why'd you close your account gmom? You can't run from fate...
Having been widowed within the past two years, I would welcome the attention of an 'old flame!' I wouldn't expect the visit to develop into anything serious, though. (None of my old flames could match up to my husband.)
Actually I did run into an old flame. I worked at a vet clinic and he came in. He had really changed (for the better) but I wasn't interested. High school is best left in high school.
There are some of my old flames I wouldn't mind seeing again. But there are some that I definitely would run from. Close the facebook, lock the doors and turn off the phone.
I'm actually with an "old flame." He was my first bf (may be my last, I'm thinking), and I married him when I was 18 (a true Big Fat Greek Wedding). My friends were going out and having fun while I was playing house. I divorced him at 19. He found his way back when I was 46. Geez!
posted by Kryssa
over 2 years ago
An old H.S. flame found me on facebook. I knew he was desparate or either just anxious to hear from me because he gave up too much info for me to contact him. Since he lives west and I live midwest, after a few conversations I am glad. He's too cheap and that's why I broke up with him. He can only be a friend.
It would depend on the old flame. There are one or two or three I wouldn't mind seeing again...