DiamondBob33
I just joined Eons tonight. 10/28/2009. I had Bladder Cancer in May 2007 , the same time my wife was diagnosed with Peritoneal Cancer. She fought for 3 years with Chemo, but it was terminal right from the start, she died last month 9-20-09. I am recovering from a colostomy surgery , that took place while we were both in the same hospital, we actually were in the same room for a day but since I developed an infection, I had to be removed from her room. She decided to stop her treatments because it was taking it's toll on her. She couldn't eat or swallow anymore and the IV's weren't being absorbed into her body. She went into Hospice and died within 8 days. I was let out of the hospital for the funeral and was realesed a week later. I have had a lot of support from my familiy and friends, but like now at night it gets very, very, lonely, we would have been married 45 yrs on Nov ,14th 09. If you have some cancer issues I can maybe give some incouregment, and tell you that you have to live every day as it was your last, you never know how your world can be changed in a split second.
