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Something Off About That Picture

Something Off About That Picture

The Legend:

A young man is dropping off groceries at the house of an eccentric old lady when he notices an old photo that makes the hair on his arms stand on end. The photo's normal enough--a young boy in his Sunday best--but something just seems off. He asks the old lady who it is.

"Oh," she replies, trying to stuff a cat in the dishwasher "isn't that beautiful? You can hardly tell he's dead."

The Truth:

While most folks today are too squeamish to take more than a glance into the casket during a funeral, in the late 19th through early 20th centuries someone dying meant it was time to break out the camera for a family photo. The practice was known as memorial photography.

And, while it all sounds like the set-up for some terrifying practical joke on the photographer, there was actually a somewhat reasonable explanation for the practice. The process used to take pictures back then was expensive enough that it was a once in a lifetime (er, or shortly after a lifetime) thing for most, and required people to sit perfectly still for a couple minutes for it to turn out properly. And if there's one thing dead people are good at it's sitting still.

So, the bodies were dressed and propped up, with their eyes held open. And in case they still weren't giving off that lively "I'm not a corpse harnessed to a chair" vibe, some color was added to the faces in the photo. And just look what they could do with special effects in those days!

Eventually the practice of memorial photography went out of style, maybe because picture-taking became more affordable and didn't have to be reserved for special occasions such as death. Or, possibly everyone just sat up all at once and said, "Wait, what the fuck are we doing?"
SnowWolf's profile
well, ALMOST everybody sat up at once.
RodgerDuke's profile

about 1 month ago
I can not find just where I got the Urban Legend from because I realized later that this story would have been great with pictures attached to it as well.

I know from the Old West days that they would dress the dead up, most of the time open their eyes and take pictures of them before sticking them in the ground. Sorry but isn't that kind of stuff a little creepy? Besides too many cowboys had only cattle so what is there to stop them with dead women who has their eyes forced open? Yeuch!!
SnowWolf's profile

about 1 month ago
This whole thing sounds gross! I remember that when my maternal grandfather's older brother, Uncle Ray Stevens died, his widow sent us a picture of him in the casket. My mother, grandmother, and I saw the photo but my grandfather refused to look at it. And who can blame him? This was around 1969.
Damefalke's profile

about 1 month ago
That is one practice that I am glad faded away with time. I am not quite sure how that practice started except for the simple reason that the camera was such a novelty item for a lot of years. Today cameras are about a common as cell phone but maybe even more so when thinking about it. But making the dead look like they are kind of alive is something that I get a bit squeamish about when knowing that the person is really dead.
SnowWolf's profile

about 1 month ago
I am the same way. I would never think about doing such a thing!
Damefalke's profile

about 1 month ago
In the south it's still a practice although they don't try to make it look like they're alive.
Reading this I remembered seeing pictures of famous criminals and people having pictures taken with body.
nanki's profile

about 1 month ago
It was an interesting time period, it seemed with each new gadget (like the camera) came various ideas that would blow your mind today.

Really it wasn't until the 1960's that things changed, along with no longer have trust in our government (that came when Nixon was caught in his own web), but one invention that come from that time really brought about new thoughts about people as a whole. The Birth-Control Pill.

But I am venturing off into different directions that I shouldn't go right now.
SnowWolf's profile

about 1 month ago
To be honest, not every female could take that pill, I know what I am talking about! :)
Damefalke's profile

about 1 month ago
I know for my wife is the same way about the pill. The thing about the pill is that women now had the right to choose when they wanted to get pregnant, it was the idea behind the invention that freed a lot of women to be like a lot of guys. The had options now open to them that never happened before in known human history.
SnowWolf's profile

about 1 month ago