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My Experience With Healthcare

In 1993, my wife was diagnosed with advanced breast cancer. I was forced to stay in my job as General Manager of a small Pittsburgh corporation for 5 years because I couldn't risk the chance of losing her health insurance and it was difficult/impossible to find a similar position elsewhere with insurance coverage for her pre-existing condition. The man who owned the company had retired and his son was totally inept and, despite my best efforts, was financially running it into the ground. During that period, he would fail to pay the premiums on time occasionally, resulting in a procedure done 2 or 3 months prior, suddenly being denied for payment until the insurance was reinstated. (We had no knowledge until payment was denied, after the fact.) I finally accepted a position as Vice President/Operations Manager of another business with complete insurance coverage. All went fine until 2002 when an economic downturn caused the business owner to lose a considerable amount of his working capital. During that period, we lost our health insurance about 5 times as he defaulted on one plan and then subscribed to yet a new one. I finally got my wife privately insured by one of the giant insurance companies on a 70% -30% basis. (They paid 70% of her bills and we were liable for 30%). She had had a recent recurrence after being in remission for some years. When we received the statement for her first new chemo treatment, we realized that this was going to cost us almost $200,000 a year. We would have lost our home and life savings at that rate. Through intense effort and negotiations I was finally able to secure insurance through a previous insurer at a very high monthly premium. Suzy spent the last 3 years of her life equally worrying about her own mortality and financial ruin. This is not right!
Dennyz28's profile
Denny,
I work at a healthcare facilty and my heart goes out to you because I know exactly what you are talking about and yes this is not right. There is no excuse for the madness that passes for insurance coverage in this country where people only have value when they are used as a commodity, but God forbid they should need any help.

Let's get true health care reform passed for your dear Suzy and all the others like her who need someone in their corner.

Joyous
Joyous's profile

about 1 month ago
My deepest condolences Denny. I know what you're talking about. I'm dealing with cancer myself. Although I have pretty good insurance, I've had the misfortune of running into doctors either while in the operating room or the emergency room that don't take ANY insurance. Sure, they'll take what the insurance pays, then send me a bill for the rest! So far I'm in debt for over $70,000 on account of 5 doctors that I had no choice in picking! Greedy leaches! The Hippocratic oath?
loko's profile

about 1 month ago
As an RN and stroke survivor I understand your frustration. These and many I have encountered both professionaly and personally are why we need to pass health reform yesterday and not wait any longer. My prayers and best wishes go out to you both
aussielvncat's profile

about 1 month ago
When Suzy was dying, I promised her that I would be unrelenting in making people aware of the greedy and opportunistic policies of the American health insurance companies and drug manufacturers. In her last days, it was very difficult for her to speak to visitors. She said to me, "You speak for me". I will always speak for her.
Denny
Dennyz28's profile

about 1 month ago
To quote a senator out of context, I have to wonder exactly "what planet" the opponents to healthcare reform live on? Maybe I was using the right context. Many of them will wake up to reality one of these days when a major illness strikes someone in their family, and even though they have "good" insurance and a good job, they don't have that 20-30% of the cost of treatment to pay up front, and find out the hard way they will not get treatment. Its not like the old days when you could pay out the deductible after treatment. I think many of the opponents have the idea set in their minds that healthcare reform is just about providing healthcare to those that "won't work" and think people like you and I are lying about what is happening to people like us, that have insurance. The cost of healthcare is bankrupting this country, and making a small percentage of our population wealthy, and half of our population just doesn't get it. To top it all off, the hospitals have gotten so lacksadaisical(sp) about doing their job that you stand a significant risk of getting a life threatening infection if you have any kind of invasive treatment there. Unlike many of the opponents, I believe even poor people should have access to healthcare.
fireguy51's profile

about 1 month ago
Very well stated, fireguy. I agree with all the comments above.

Thanks for telling your story, Denny. It's insane that people have to battle insurance companies in addition to navigating the scary medical system when ill.

I think many in your situation don't know how to read insurance fine print as well as you do — especially if alone and sick. Too many lose everything and end up with family gone and disastrous medical bills.

To me, health care for profit is obscene. Somebody makes money off cancer treatment and dying children! Why isn't that incomprehensible to everyone who believes in humane treatment?

Hospitals are one place you want kind, intelligent perfectionists and compulsive cleanliness. But as fire said, "you stand a significant risk of getting a life threatening infection if you have any kind of invasive treatment . . . ."

Places that need to be sterile often expose patients with compromised immune systems to bacteria and viruses they can't fight. I believe most medical errors are with medications — and are often the result of sloppiness.

The way I look at it, if you're making minimum wage at McDonald's and you mix up salt and sugar because they "look the same" — you're fired. Yet two infants can be injected with 1,000 X too much blood thinner and the excuse was the labels "look the same."
ZoeCassard's profile

about 1 month ago