Good question because it beats the heck out of me and I hope they are looking for someone with quailities besides sexual prowess. By this age we know sex is important in a relationship but what else? Everytime or most everytime I talk to a man on the net and we may webcam the first thing they want to do is see your boobs or play neked..OMG..please tell me there is more to life than that or have men lost all respect for the female..BiBI this is something so many of us females want to know and afraid to ask..we love our men when we have a partner key word being partner...
well, would be nice to find some one that does not like going out all the time. spending time , just
snuggling, talking , and the like. living on disability , money is tight.
and one that does not want to get married right away. one that does not drink , or drinks very little.
smoking is ok. one that does not mind me not being a sports fan. am not going to try to
change any one. so, would appreciate if that were two way.
Honest, sincere, decent cook? Gets her own space and gives me mine on occassion. Not a shop-a-holic. All of this with a pulse. Asking too much ?
Add to "TheRifle"s list: the ability to laugh (and not the fake kind)
posted by toddke
about 1 month ago
One that does not want to spend money at the casino's, like to go and see things around the country and even maybe the world, with someone as partner and not dependent on for financial support. One who can laugh at and with themselves as well as others. Likes to do things on spontaneous, or planned day or evenings. One who can assist in the building of things around the house, assist in car maintenance or rebuilding of older vehicles. One who can give without demands of equal return. One who can smile, hug, kiss, and one to cuddle with and watch TV or a movie with a little popcorn and soda or wine and cheese. One to whom a conversation can lead to enlightenment and education or just small talk. One who can take me for my faults and I for theirs without negative comments. Some change can be tolerated, but do not change me into something I am not. I can overlook many faults, but when it comes to the individual, she must have the chemistry as I to make it work. I am not the perfect guy and not looking for the perfect woman either, just cautious I guess. When it happens it will happen. I can have a gun or rifle and not be criticized about it, go hunting, fishing or just to have them. Have many interest and sometime not enough time for them. Likes to do just about anything crazy at time, nude sunbathing or clothes optional place. to a play or live theater, which at times like to do, just hang around, work toward a goal that is beneficial for both and most of all must have fun, enjoyment and communication with the other person.
posted by Gunrs
about 1 month ago
Well, no offense guys.....but there are about a gazillion women out there who are just made to order and who are looking, too......so methinks you fellas aren't really looking all that hard.
I know, every time a guy seems to take an interest, I never hear from him again!
I'm not being critical......just honest.
posted by usmcma
about 1 month ago
What do I want? First I am looking for someone who is fun. Someone who likes to laugh and can joke around. Someone who will laugh at my jokes and I will laugh at hers. Someone who likes me and wants to spend time with me. Someone who is honest and tells the truth. Someone who has a career and a job and makes her own money. Alternately has retired and can take care of herself. Someone who is her own person and knows what she wants in life and won’t compromise just to have someone in her life. Someone who wants me but does not need me. Someone who is not obese ie does not weigh more then me unless she is taller then me. Someone who has her own life and wants me to join with her when she can fit me in. Someone who will join with me when I can fit her in. Someone who will listen to me ramble on about history, politicks or religion with out her eyes glazing over. Someone with a point of view on those things she cares about. Someone who likes to offroad and tent camp occasionally. As with Gunrs doesn’t have a problem with guns if they are stored safely. Someone who can let me have my space to do my hobbies. Someone who can get to know me with out being judgmental about what she finds. Someone who can like my sons. Someone who likes adventures. Someone who will hold up their end of the partnership. Someone who likes food and drink but not to excess. Someone who likes to cook but will let me cook also. Someone who can’t wait to see me when we are to meet and that I can’t wait to see her. Someone who loves physical intimacy, holding hands, hugging, kissing, fooling around and of course sex lots of sex.
Yes USMCMA there are lots of women on Eons that have these features. Unfortunately you are on the wrong side of the country and I will be leaving Las Vegas to find work soon. If I am lucky it will be back to Alaska. If only I am that lucky.
guys I like your lists. Shows that you have thought about it. And I don't think you are asking too much.
Same here plenty of women out that who fits those requirements althought it seems guys go for a "LOOK" and then try ti fit the woamn into their mold..not being critical either just observant from friends and experience. One example my experience, I like being casual most of the time not sloppy but casual, a friend of mine I go out with expects me to wear high heels and look sexy when walking out shopping. Instead of appreciateing me and the other things we get along with. Many times women shop because that is all they have from a relationship..that snuggling stuff only mean sex, what else could it mean. He watches the ball game or whatever she has had her share and what else is there left but shopping for some women? If you tak her to the casinos while dating because she likes that then you may expect for that to continue when in the relationship..etc. again not being critical just trying to enlighten you guys out there. Therer are so many women and men who really want a relationship and you guys call and meet and then don't call back etc.not even giving the female the opportunity of knowing why? Hope this helps
distance....online relationships are kinda hard......even if you see someone you would like to know better....chances are you aren't going to make the effort....to far away...right?
