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Freedom

I was in an abusive marriage for 35 years. Had 3 children and was afraid to leave, afraid I wouldn't be able to support them. I had no family support, couldn't tell them anything. It was different back then. Maybe I would have been braver now.

Those days are gone. I became a widow 12 years ago. From day 1 I was relieved of my burden. So many friends and all my in-laws were there for me. I actually talk a lot now. I am happy to be me. One of my friends gave me nickname of giggles if that tells you anything. I have promised myself that if a man cannot treat me with respect in every way I will not be his friend. I am passionate about so many things, life is good.
Babs43's profile
You almost typed my life story, but my son blames me for not leaving sooner. I haven't seen him in three years and he only lives 6 hours away. I'm a widow now too sort of and divorced from second; trust level is gone. Hope you are doing well and best of luck. Vicki
worrystone's profile

17 days ago
Zero trust.

that's pretty much the way it needs to be.

all to often the younger women get involved with a man again..............all too soon.
AND they don't wait long enough to marry the guy.
laffinman's profile

16 days ago