Give him/her up. I think if they are engaged and dating someone on the side, it shows they don't take relationships very seriously.
if they cheat....they will keep cheating
Amen annieoak,,,,as I always say "once a cheater always a cheater"
I went to a psychic once and she was telling me to be very careful with my ex-husband because he was trying to win me back (gosh that was sooooo true at the time,,,,he really was trying). Anyway, she told me not to let him back into my life because "a leopard is a leopard and will never loose it's spots".
I have the same respect for an engagement that I would have for a marriage. I would depart very quickly from the situation once I found out the person was spoken for. However, this leaves the ball in the court of the person I was dating doesn't it? Are they infact "cheater material"? Most likely if they will cheat on their finance' now they will cheat on him/her later on in the marriage. So what is there worth fighting for - he/she is a loser. But, then again maybe they are just someone with "cold feet".
posted by anakris
about 1 month ago
Cold feet would break off the engagement and venture out..some men/women just want a back up plan and that is why they cheat. If they are told no to something they go to their backup...get rid of them..they don't love anyone but themselves...
Im with Annie on this one - once a cheater always a cheater - give him his walking papers and a point him toward the road...
posted by gnibaby
about 1 month ago
If you stayed with this type of person.......you shouldn't be dating....your life will be a mess.
I believe in that saying, "If he'd do it with you, he'd do it to you!" Why in the world would you stay in a relationship with someone you knew was a liar and a cheat?
That's a rather important fact to withhold. I don't believe in once a cheater always a cheater - people can, and do, change - but that's a lie of omission, and a rather big one at that. So I'd drop him like a hot potato. Too much drama in that scenario and I stay away from drama.
Give him/her up - he/she doesn't deserve you or me!!!
