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I am still longing

I can't stop thinking of the great times my x and I had ( WHEN WE WERE STILL IN LOVE) and when i spend time with other men in my life it seems like i am comparing them to him ,and i dont know how to stop doing that! I mean dam"t if he was so great we would still be togethere. BUT,I still long for the walks we took ,the talks we had , I am still longing for a love ,the laughter,the jokes ,the trips, dancing around the house togethere,just taking a drive thur the country listening to music ,sitting on the roof of the house just to watch the sunsets. Someone tell me how do you move forward and forget !!!
ladyblue52's profile
I can relate totally.
Was it my first love? Could it have been true love (on my part), as they say: 'the one'? Or is it self protection, to avoid being hurt again?
Obviously I don't have the answer but I have thought about it a lot.
sstill's profile

2 months ago
it is very hard in this world to find that perfect one. the one that fits inside your arms just so. whos lips hold that perfect sweetness. that one that can fofill that longing for those soft caresses. there are so many on both sides of the fence who are so self interested. unable to give of themselves. so few in this life ever know what love truly is. you my lady are looking for a dream. but without a dream it will never come true so keep dreaming. i do know about dreaming.

In Love

I am the wolf in winter woods.
The lion on the plane.
I am a bounding antelope.
I long to be your hearts true flame.
I am night, I take the sun.
I give you stars up in the sky.
I ask myself most every day.
Is true love another a lie?
I am the buck with mighty rack.
The tender spotted fawn.
Deep inside my heart I know.
It would hurt if you were gone.
You are desire in my passion.
My everything, my all.
Without you here to hold my heart.
So surly I would fall.
My life would mean so little.
Without you by my side.
If you weren't here to hold me.
Where could my sole reside?
Our bodies are our temples.
Mine would be but empty shell.
To live my life without you.
Would be such a livening hell.
My love for you is infinite.
Never will it end.
I am so deep in love with you.
My heart I can't defend.
So I ask my sweet, be gentle.
Love me strong and true.
We'll always be together.
You know how I love you.
Rew
Copyright ©2007
Rewtoo's profile

2 months ago
By T. D. Jakes

There are people who can walk away from you.

And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

The bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.

Let them go.

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye.. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.

Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to......

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ......

LET IT GO!!!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth.....

LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you.

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge.....

LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction... ..

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents

LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude.... ...

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better......

LET IT GO!!!

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him........

LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship. ....

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves.. ...

LET IT GO!!!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed ...........

LET IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying 'take your hands off of it,' then you need to......

LET IT GO!!!
GothamGal's profile

about 1 month ago
In order for a seed to grow it must first "die." Sometimes we must lay to rest old memories and create new ones. Paul said it so wonderfully ... "... forgetting about things those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before ..."
SuiteLadyJ's profile

about 1 month ago
Maybe it is just me, but I wouldn't want to give those memories up. Good memories are hard to come by, and they lay a good foundation for future encounters. So, enjoy them. You will never stop comparing. So what! At the very least, you have something good to compare to. Many people don't.....verbal abuse, sexual abuse, cheating, etc. Anyway, good luck and look forward to your new adventures..........
ejd48's profile

about 1 month ago
If you want to forget; it time you will! Ask yourself ... do you REALLY want to forget???
SuiteLadyJ's profile

29 days ago