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visits

I haven't dreamed about my dad pretty much since I had a visit from him years ago, he's been gone 25 year. It wasn't a dream, it was more of an out of body type thing. I remember I "floated" into the town where he grew up and he was sitting in a gazebo reading the paper. He told me he wouldn't be able to visit with me anymore until I quit crying...about him being gone. He died fairly suddenly of a stroke. Needless to say I've only had 1 or 2 "dreams". I'm not sure that they were actually dreams either. I was very ill. In my "dream" I found myself on the front porch of the house I grew up in. My dad was holding out his hand for me to go with him. I said I couldn't because I still had to make sure my kids were going to be ok. This happened twice. I don't dream of my mom hardly at all. I still miss them both very much. Does anybody have a take on my dream and any way I can visit with them more often? I know my dad lurks around the house every once in a while..but not my mom.
holly04's profile
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All is possible!
zebrasandsuch's profile

about 1 month ago
I am not sure about your mom coming back as your dog....but possible , all is. I want to think that your mom possibly gave you your new dog , same b-days so you would think of her and she would be connected to you in that way. MBW
MistaiBlueWolf's profile

about 1 month ago
Your dad was trying to tell you that grieving is a barrier to his getting through. It is the love bond that is like a super highway for communicating with our loved ones who have passed on. When one grieves it sets up a heavy fog, a barrier that makes it more difficult often for them to get through.

One way to increase the chances of communicating is to reflect on the pleasant memories you have had with a loved one, the good times, the affection you have for them. Doing so just before sleep many find effective to getting a visit, a 'dream' that isn't really a dream -- so real as if they were alive with you.

People have different amounts of energy it seems, even after they have passed on. Loved ones in spirit can be present but have difficulty making their presence know, probably because of the amount of energy it takes to make manifest on this plane. That doesn't mean they are not there, just that one is not aware.

I read for a lady one time who inquired first, about her father who had passed suddenly from a heart attack. He knew she was in college, planning to ditch out of taking her final exams, the name of the young man she was dating, and that he would propose marriage and be a good match for her -- that she was spending money extravagantly and at that reading, gave her a kiss on the forehead -- as he had always done when she was a child. He said he would be at her wedding. He obviously had been around her all the years after his death in order to know everything she was doing and planning -- although she didn't feel his presence.

At that session she asked about her grandmother, and her grandmother came through vividly, '23 again,' she said, "I am 23 again. Look at my picture." The woman had her grandmother's wedding picture on her mantle, the marriage contracted, the wedding took place, when she was 23. The grandmother went on to tell of relatives that were with her on the other side, That she would be present at the birth of the woman's first child, a boy, that she hoped would be named after an uncle. And then went on to say, "I am the one who blows on your neck." The lady was astonished for often while she was sitting in her livingroom chair, usually reading, she would feel a little cold draft on her neck. There were no open windows she told me, and never could figure where that draft was coming from. It was her grandmother, letting her know she was there.

The difference in perception by the lady of her two relatives that showed her they were present around her demonstrates, I think, the differences in ability to communicate from the other side. Easiest for us is to communicate with them when we are in the sleep state -- easier for our astral bodies to travel to meet them on the other plane. So remember your mom and dad and the loving times you have had together. Think of them before you go to sleep. And you just may travel to see them again.

God bless.
GothamGal's profile

about 1 month ago
I'm going to try, very hard...wouldn't it be wonderful! I have so much good news for them!
holly04's profile

about 1 month ago
When you go to sleep, clear your mind and think only of the person you want to contact. Ask that person to come to you in your dreams. This might not happen right away but don't give up, they will come.
Clairsentient's profile

about 1 month ago
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