Is it fair to be in a relationship when you aren't?
Have you ever started a relationship before you were?
Yes, I'm completely over my ex! Not only that but I don't know why I married him! I don't feel any emotion when I see him.. weird, right? So, my heart is open and really free and clear and ready to love another man. The problem is that I don't have anyone on sight:( LOL
Well now. Can you be comepletely over someone? I would think if the relationship had it's good moments, those would always stay with you. That relationship and being with that person has had an influence on you, your behavior and outlook on life. But if you mean are you still pining for something that you'll never have again, no. I'm not. Forward march. To answer the question in your first reply, no, it's not fair to yourself or the new person because you can't give that relationship all your attention.
Have I ever started a relationship before I was? Yes, in college. Ended up marrying him. Didn't last cause it really was a rebound thing...actually, for him too as he had just broken up with a g/f who had meant a lot to him.
I'm still madly in love with my late husband...
But, I am so ready for a new man.
Yup, ready for a new man. Hey, new men! Here we are! (waving)
Or at my age maybe I'm waiting for an old man!
Waving....whistling ....tapping fingers in table....tapping foot on floor....
Mostly over him...still little twinges of hurt here and there....and once in a while I well up over the loss....but definitely moving forward and ready for someone new...if only....
Dodger...where are you? lmao
I am as over him as I can be. I think that a part of my heart will always belong to him, I loved him too long, too much to completely be 100% over him. But I am 98% over him. I don't want him back, wouldn't let him come back if he begged me to. I sometimes wonder why I married him, why I even loved him. But the good memories, and there are a lot of good memories, they out weigh the bad memories. But I know I am over him and ready for a new love,
Now, I will join the group waiting for the new man. Peeping out the window... standing in the door.....waving....here we are. Come on over.
