It would be OK if he just held me said something like, "It will be OK". If he started saying to much like "thats Ridiculous" Or "why are you dreaming that crap", It would raise a RED flag. It would have me thinking that maybe there was something going on and I needed to investigate.
HMMMMM...that's interesting,just the opposite I think from what the reaction expected.....
posted by xstorm
over 2 years ago
I guess to me it would depend what state our relationship was in at that time.Usually dreams happen for a reason and may even be a wake up call.We dream about things our subconcious is already thinking about,although our concious minds may not be aware of it.If the relationship has been down that road before it could have good cause to be bringing it up,even if its only in your dreaming mind.I would definatly be aware of any thing thats wasnt normal going on.
No my husband is always home no reason to wonder what my dream ment. He holds me often to comfort me for many reasons. That is just the manor of the man
Great answer,Lori!...I won't even have to put my answer down,'cause you just said it...
Lea....your blessed!
posted by xstorm
over 2 years ago
Like summerrain stated, if you have a strong relationship and it stands on a solid foundation then there shouldn't be any cause for alarm. But if, your husband has ever given you any reason to suspect him and he's been unfaithful before, then having those types of dreams would be understandable. Once your trust is tarnished or you haven't been able to forgive completely, your always going to wonder about it happening again. I truly believe this is one of the hardest obstacles for a marriage to survive. Even with being held and comforted after having a cheating dream..you'll probably always have doubts lingering in the back of your mind if they cheated before.
I trust my Husband to the max. He has never ever given me a reason to doubt him. He is a beautiful human being inside and out. I was truely blessed the day I met him...even if at first I thought he was rather arrogant.
Well it could be that your marriage is in bad shape and you dream that dream.
But I have dreams of being chased by monsters and that has never happen yet.
LOL..I thought this post sounded familiar!
You really did go back,reef!
I wish all the new members would see what good stuff is back there!
(and reef,you ARE truly blessed)!
posted by xstorm
over 2 years ago
