NO, an affair is never justified
when you said guys I take it that was a general not gender term!
cause equal numbers of men and women cheat
and easily more women try to justify it than men, is my experience
and they usually justify it by blaming the man for something he's doing or failing to do thats driving them to it
no excuse. If you want to cheat, leave your present situation first. I don't understand the High office cheaters either. They think they are above it all and won't get caught or if they do get caught it will be swept under the rug. They also must think their wives won't leave them due to they'd have to give up a way of life they and their children are used to? just guessing?
Cheating is never justified...however I do have a question:
If the playing field is equal, why is it that we never hear about a woman official having an affair? It's always the men who get caught....how is that possible if women cheat as much as men? Maybe I have missed the news stories about women officials getting caught cheating on their husbands?
I think men may be seduced, they're so visual! What man can say no to an X-rated suggestion?
But, when a man has an affair, if he's not trying to hang onto his youth, he may want something from a new woman that the old one won't give...credibility? Often people who live together are just tired, it's stale.
I can understand what drives them. Hey, we're talking survival of the species and basic biology here!
all I can say from experience is that married men justify very easily the reasons for cheating..works both ways..
Well guys "Is there really all that much difference between sex partners" LOL
Echoing the part about lack of justification others have mentioned, I'll add that all the cats I've found in the dark were very different from each other. I can't imagine any cat good enough to put one's self at such risk though -- none of them. I think we need to look at factors other than raw sex to understand why this happens. There were some very good discussions about this in the not-too-distant past, at least in Dating Reality
I'm not a guy..lol..but I certainly can answer that from MY point of view...YES..
Where I used to work the men in the office often talked as if all women were the same and sex was what was important not sex with any one special partner. I know it makes a difference to women who that partner is but is it just as important to men?
a man can be seduced?
Both men and woman should know right from wrong.
If they have integrity they also know how to say NO.
A person can only be seduced if they want to be.
