Message 984 of 2207

Doing Things Alone....

Are there some activities or events you just won't do by yourself?.....have had many people, particularly women, say they have quit doing many things because they don't have anyone to go with....

I think its always nice to have company when I go out to dinner or to a movie, but not having company doesn't keep me from doing it....vacations can be more fun when you share them but again, I travel by myself all the time.

How about you?
BlitheSpirit52's profile
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I seem to have quit asking couples over for dinner (or any meal). It's just weird for a woman alone to invite a pair to a social gathering. I need a blow-up man to sit in a chair at the table...

4 months ago
I don't go out to dinner that often by myself unless I'm traveling. When I do, I choose to sit in the bar area as there are other single folks there. Also, there's usually a TV on so you can pretend to be interested in hockey or tennis or, heaven forbid, golf. (I know I'm in trouble here, but I can't help it.) I do travel by myself, but now there are lots of eons friends and some of them might be up for traveling with me! I had always wanted to cruise the inside passage up to Alaska. Finally did that last summer with about 40 others from eons. It was terrific.
SouthFlorida's profile

4 months ago
I will do most things alone but I will not go out to dinner alone...lunch yes, dinner no....I also do not like to travel alone but I will.
Pamela4's profile

4 months ago
I don't go to reunions or receptions alone. My family is very formal (read stuffy) and a single woman does mess up the table, so I don't get invited to dinners either. If there is to be dancing at an affair I won't go without an escort either.
happykitty's profile

4 months ago
I can do anything alone, can't think of nothing I wouldn't do.
MaryTake5's profile

4 months ago
I have dinner alone but I never go to the movies alone. I just don't go to movies. I used to travel alone to visit an ex-girlfriend but traveling can be so confusing since I take buses since I don't drive.
moroccanron's profile

4 months ago
Th loner,the better.
dodger44's profile

4 months ago
I go out to dinner alone all the time. I keep a paperback book in the car, and it goes in with me. I can get a few pages in while waiting for my food. And usually read while eating. I go to movies alone, shopping alone, the beach and/or the lake alone. I plan to be braver this summer and travel and sightsee alone. I have signed up for ome local meetup groups. but don't lkie to go to the alone, I dislike going to group activites where I don't know anyone alone. Going on my first skit last year took a lot for me. If I had not been chatting nightly with that group, I probably wouldn't have gone. And almost turned around and went back home several times. Now I have to skitting thing down, I am going to try the meet up thing, alone.

Sf, if you need a travel partner, yell, if it's somewhere I am interested in going, and money is right, and no other plans, I might be up for it.
Ellen7's profile

4 months ago
I hate going anywhere alone, but I'm getting better at it
I went to Arizona alone had a great time! but boy more than once I wished I had someone there to share that Ahhh! with
And how great it would have been to play in the snow with someone and share how excited I was the first time I saw snow!
ever tried to have a snowball fight alone?
"ALONE" what a horrible existence: God take me now if thats my future
livlovlife's profile

4 months ago
I work in Manhattan and after work on a friday night I love going to a movie on my own and getting something light to eat afterwards. I am so accustomed to being on my own and I am very comfortable with it.

But I do have my activities that require the cooperation of others:
*Playing Backgammon for hours
** Dancing all night
*** Trying out a new restaurant and ordering a good bottle of red wine & talking for hours
**** Making a delicious meal at home and sharing it with my friends around the kitchen table
Vintage1954's profile

4 months ago
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