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well here's another post where i get to throw you guys in the deep end ..as blithe says i have a habit of doin sometimes .. well sort of .. you don't have to go if you don't wanna .. but i've been doin some thinkin lately about love and how it effects us a bit differently than it did when we were younger .. love and expectations .. when we were younger we may have had some expectations but we really didn't know what to really expect .. we never did that or been there before so how could we ?? but now .. now we know better .. and the big problem with love is once you fall into it you expect something .. if you're just friends with someone and it gets to the point of horizontal but you leave that love word out neither party can claim that you let them down because no real promises were made .. but once that love word gets into the mix everything changes .. because once you're in love you have expectations.. so let me ask you if you were to fall in love tomorrow what would your expectations be ?? don't rush to answer .. think it over cause if you do fall in love tomorrow and that person you're in love with don't meet your expectaions what do you do ?? i sometimes think that when you go for your marriage license you should have to fill out an essay on what your expectations are and so should your future spouse .. if they ain't even close .. they fail you and you can't get married unless you fix it somehow .. counciling or role playing .. whatever might work .. but if you're expectaions are too high they deem you unmarriable .. ( is that even a word )
anyway think this over and then answer .. shit have some fun with it .. i'm sure dodger will find some way to hijack the post anyway so just go with it .. but who knows what you might discover about yourself if you just take some time to really think about it ..